I've been with DP for 3 years. 3 kids between us (none together). Currently live separately. DP has recently said we should start thinking about living together, and to have a look at what houses are around. My issue is:
I currently own my home (mortgage). DP lives with family after separation from his ex (pays rent). My DP can't move in with me as my house is tiny (there would literally be no room at all for him or his DC).
I wouldn't be happy to sell my house to then rent a house with him.
To me it seems silly to sell my house and buy one with him when we have never actually lived together.
DP thinks it'll be fine to just go ahead and buy together and doesn't really see what the issue is I'm having.
Does anyone have any suggestions? Would be much appreciated!
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Unread00 · 10/06/2020 13:55
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