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Dh has always liked a drink, and usually has something like half a bottle of wine three nights a week, plus the odd couple of pints of beer, or a couple of whiskies. I guess his usual consumption would be about 15 - 16 units a week.
Over the past couple of months he has been drinking every night, usually at least half a bottle of wine. So he's drinking more like 20 - 25 units a week. I've suggested (nicely!) that he might consider having a couple of nights off and he agrees, but hasn't actually done so yet.
Apart from his health there's the question of money. We're not broke, but our financial situation changed a few weeks back and we're having to tighten our belts a bit. Nothing too much, nothing to get stressed about, but four bottles of wine a week adds up. I'm having to watch what I spend, and have had to give up my once-a-week latte and muffin, but it seems that the booze doesn't come into that category. He does all the shopping and the wine has almost become a staple.
Putting aside the financial stuff though, would you be worried if your dh was drinking so much? It hasn't affected his behaviour or anything, but it's starting to worry me. How much is too much?
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Too much booze?
TooManyBottles · 12/09/2007 14:41
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