My dh ( of over 20 years) and I have had a few problems recently
today everything came to a head and we had a blazing row..
During which it came out he has had an affair. He is in his midfifties.
I eventually ( after threatening to ask every single person that he knows) got him To confess who with and it's a woman in her nineties.... I knew they were spending time together and I was touched by the time he was giving her. I thought it was very sweet. I've helped he out myself made her cups of tea, done her shopping etc. And now I.find this out. I've been throwing up. I'm shaking, I can't get my head around it at all. I could almost cope,better if it was a younger girl. It would make more.sensse. This just seems so wrong. I've are him leave, but he wants me to.forgive him. I can't can I???
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He cheated on me
keepingitalltogether · 06/03/2017 23:10
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