I've NC as my DMIL is on this site!
DH and I live about 120 miles from PILs. ATM we see them about 3-4 times a year.
I'm 8 months PG. PILs were planning to visit in the first week after the baby's born but I put my foot down on this and said I want time with DH and DBaby before anyone visits. They were pissed off but I think they get it.
Last night on Skype DMIL said something along the lines of 'We'll come and visit every two or three weeks for a weekend'. I was but I didn't say anything at the time.
Is it me or is this really excessive? I get that they want to see DBaby but the idea of every 1 in 2 or 1 in 3 weekends being eaten up by PILs visiting is a nightmare.
I was envisaging seeing them maybe every couple of months but I think they have different ideas. One of my cousins on FB said his parents come every month but even this, I think, is a bit much.
What do you think?
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Visits from grandparents- how much is too much?
Ineedmorewine · 12/08/2015 11:31
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