Hi, we have our scan on Friday and we (well, I, really) just can't decide whether to find out the gender. It's our second baby, and we chose not to find out with the first. In a weird way I am worried it might jinx it if I find out (as DC1 was a healthy, fairly easy baby and I had a very straightforward labour). (Weird logic, I know! but that's how my brain works!!)
My husband's quite keen to find out and I definitely can see the benefits (in terms of choosing a name, sorting out clothes etc).
Also, it took me a while to get used to the name we gave DC1 - I felt we decided too quickly (husband is a nightmare with names :-( and I did feel I compromised a bit). I obvioulsy can't imagine DC1 being called anything else now but I do remember those feelings of regret in those first few weeks.
We've decided that if we do find out the gender we'll just keep it to ourselves so that's it's still a bit special.
Just wanted to know what you did? Did you regret it? Pros/cons of finding out.
My indecision is driving me and DP nuts!!
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Should I find out the gender or not with DC2?
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halfpint76 · 09/09/2013 08:35
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