Bf hates my kids

[Tracey321]

I have been with my bf for 5yr now I have 2 children form a previous relationship and we have a 3yr old together
To cut a long story short he hate my other 2 children he calles them all the time and is very controlling he will not let our 3 yr old near my other 2 children I have to keep them away from each other my other 2 children are not aloud in the same room as my bf and he hate me doing stuff for them I don’t know what to do for the best do I get rid of him for my 2 children or do I keep him for the sake of our daughter we have together

[blueskyinmarch]

You get rid of him for the sake of your other 2 DC of course. He sounds like a bastard.

[whiningandwining]

Do you need to ask?! Think of your children!

[Whydomypubeslooklikeanest]

Get rid.

He shouldn't even be there for the sake of his child. Do you really want her to think that it's ok to treat her siblings as lesser beings?

[MrsWooster]

Bye bye bf

[N2986]

Seriously he needs to go

[Prettylovely]

Absolutely get rid of him, asap.

[TheHodgeoftheHedge]

Why the hell did you have a kid with a man who doesn't treat your kids well?! Put them first ffs like you should and get rid of him.

[Isthisnameacceptable01]

Well that is that then. It is the end of the road for your relationship.

[stitchglitched]

You start protecting your children by leaving the bastard, but if you aren't capable of putting them first is it possible for them to move in with their Dad? At least then they wouldn't spend their childhood being emotionally abused.

[Tracey321]

He wasn’t like that at first until it wa to late now I feel stuck

[villamariavintrapp]

Get rid of him for the sake of all three of your kids.

[ChaosAndPiss]

Boy bye.

[OutyMcOutface]

Ffs. Aren’t you disgusted with yourself? Why the he’ll are you with him?

[gingergenius]

You know the right answer. He goes.

[upsideup]

Seriously why would you be willing to subject your children to that? Did you really expect anyone to advise anything other than get them the hell away from him.

[BigSandyBalls2015]

Wow! How old are your elder two?

[Tracey321]

It’s not as easy as that he gets aggressive and intimidates me every time I try make him leave so I just keep quiet and stay out of his was to avoid getting hurt

[ChaosAndPiss]

Don't make him leave then. Pack up your shit (or don't) and just leave with all three kids.

[Qvar]

It is as easy as that

It's child abuse.

Call the police, explain that your boyfriend emotionally abuses your children, have him removed, he's gone.

[Tracey321]

I am yes but I’m also scared of him he’s abusive with me and I feel in danger if I say something to him

[stitchglitched]

Your sole responsibility is to your children. You have a legal obligation to safeguard their welfare. If you aren't capable of doing that then contact social services, their school, anyone in authority and tell them what is going on.

[NotAllTimsWearCapes]

What do you think your children would prefer? They’re his victims. What would they prefer? I’m sure you know the answer.

You need to get rid of him. He is an abuser and you are enabling it every second he stays in your house.

[Aprilmightmemynewname]

You risk long term damage to your dc mental health.
Your youngest will benefit more from having good sibling relationships than anything her absolutely horrific father can give her.
Please leave. If your dc decided to tell school how things are at home they may involve Ss. And that's not usually a good thing.

[Qvar]

Your kids are in danger already, don't use them as a fucking shield

[Tracey321]

14 and 12 with attitude what he don’t like witch makes things worse for us