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Friendly Frugaleers Festive Preparations and Financial Accountability

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Wolfcub · 20/11/2019 21:23

New Fred

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SnugglySnerd · 20/11/2019 21:39

Thanks Wolf.

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Girliefriendlikespuppies · 20/11/2019 21:58

Thanks wolf signing in!

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maddenlightfoot · 20/11/2019 22:42

Jumping back in to new thread!! Aim to be around more and stay frugally accountable for December (although just did an £80 Tesco delivery mainly consisting of pizza, curry, wine and beer 🤭)

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Unescorted · 20/11/2019 23:19

fanks Fred

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ChristmasSeacow · 20/11/2019 23:48

Hey Unescorted that sounds eventful, and not in a good way mostly. Sorry your DPs are having a tough time. What is a talking tour? ( your DH and ds?)

I went to the pub with some school parents but just had the one drink. Now I am lying in bed I can hear something buzzing about in the bedroom. In November. So annoying.

Chuffing cold here!

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LivingInLaputa · 21/11/2019 00:03

Thanks wolf 💐 I’ll try and keep up better this time.

Much love unescorted ❤️

Second film screening was fab. Really immersive and interesting, IMAX documentary called Under the Sea. Lots of smaller kids reaching out to try and touch the fish 😅

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Happierwithouthim · 21/11/2019 05:46

Signing in
Today's spends will include €22.50 on disposing of 5 bags of rubbish & €6 on basketball as both dc are going to go.
H is promised to take away the rubbish on 11th Nov, I'm sick of waiting.

Today's going to be a tough work day as I'm short resources due to a breakdown but I'm finished 2.5 hours early so I'll just look forward to that Smile

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lifelongfrugaleer · 21/11/2019 06:39

Well done wolf.

Yip unescorted I was definitely in pizza express.....

Yes happier walk away from the shite until another day is a good thing.
My shite from last night is to deal with this morning. I don't get paid enough for this....

£15 dinner money last night, £15 the works,

Posted your letter wolf. Nothing owed.

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maddenlightfoot · 21/11/2019 06:42

Morning all! Urgh, have not been sleeping well this week. Finding it hard to drop off then awake earlier than my alarm. We have a horrendously busy weekend ahead (aren't all weekends leading up to Christmas?!) so I need to start making mid-week more focused on resting.
Work shortly, then looking after elderly FIL (just been diagnosed with dementia so we're trying to spend more time with him - taking him to a football match on Saturday).

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WreckTangled · 21/11/2019 07:23

Thanks wolf

It's our wedding anniversary today. My Nan and grandad gave us £20 they're so sweet.

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Wolfcub · 21/11/2019 07:32

Happy birthday Girlie WineBiscuitThanks

Happy anniversary Wreck Thanks

Thank you Life that's very kind

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lifelongfrugaleer · 21/11/2019 07:46

Oh yes happy birthday girlie
Happy anniversary wreck.

Happy Thursday everyone else x

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lifelongfrugaleer · 21/11/2019 07:48

It was only a couple of £ wolf. Though maybe I should charge you post office on a lunch break trauma compensation. Grin

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ememem84 · 21/11/2019 08:03

Morning all.

Ds slept through!!!!! No idea why but I don’t care!

I’m going into town today to meet a friend for coffee. Needto pick up my wedding ring which I had resized. Might do some Christmas shopping while I’m there. Need to get things for dh ds and Dd.

I have to be a bit more careful with money now. Today would have been payday. But no payday for me now until February.

Need to also make a payment into my pension so must contact them to do this soon.

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Unescorted · 21/11/2019 08:15

Happy Birthday Girlie - may the gin be with you
Happy anniversary Wreck

Sea they did a series of talks about their bike riding. It is ticketed so they can pay back some of the family money spent going on their adventures. They are quite well known in adventure circles so are getting invites to speak... Kendal last weekend, Bruges this weekend.

Bargain of the week - I have a new hat for winter. DH's staff discount = half price. £8 saved. Which offsets the £8 paid to park at the hospital for DD tooth surgery which was cancelled for a second time. The surgeon wasn't confident that it was as straightforward as his underlings thought it was - so more scans to work out exactly where the teeth are. Poor DD was all gowned up.

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Happierwithouthim · 21/11/2019 08:30

Happy Birthday girlie
Happy Anniversary wreck

Anyone any experience of Kalms night or Bach night remedy, found them in the bathroom cabinet, and just thought they might be something to aid my sleep. They were ex's that I purchased but he wouldn't use them in case he didn't wake when alarm went off Hmm

Great news about the sleep em I hear ya with not moving him out of cot, ds is 6 and dd is 9 and I still have a stair gate at top of stairs Grin

After my success selling fireguard so quickly last week, I'm inspired to visit attic and take photos of high chair and anything else that doesn't need moving to our next house

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WreckTangled · 21/11/2019 08:33

Happy birthday girlie!

£21 boden 🤦🏽‍♀️ but in my defence I got ds a hoody (that should have been £40) and dd a t shirt (that should have been £18). Ds has no hoodies that fit and I was looking at a v similar one in mountain warehouse for £15. This will have a decent resale value though

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LivingInLaputa · 21/11/2019 08:41

Happy birthday girlie!

Playgroup today on four hours sleep 😅 think I’ll aim for a nap later. Going to try and swim while DD1 is at gym.

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Girliefriendlikespuppies · 21/11/2019 09:12

Thanks lovelies 🥰 nice morning so far, got lovely card from dd, she has rationed my presents (so I don't get over excited?!) so I had two this morning and get the rest after school 🤣

I got money from my mum and dad, I've moved some straight to savings 😇

Dds brace has come loose so need to sort that out and the dog needs more food so life plods on regardless of bdays! However going out for tea tonight with mum, dd and the puppy so that will be nice.

Have put £10 on dds school dinner account this morning.

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SnugglySnerd · 21/11/2019 09:25

Happy birthday Girlie! That's so sweet of your dd.

Happy anniversary Wreck!

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Lovemaltesers · 21/11/2019 11:09

Thanks for the new thread

Happy birthday girlie and happy anniversary wreck

Full of cold here so not been keeping up too well with the thread and can’t remember much of what i’ve read Halloween Blush

Well done on the project seacow and hooray for the finished bathroom

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Plancina · 21/11/2019 18:25

Hello all! Happy birthday girlie

NSD today as have been in work then out for a walk with DP in the countrySide behind the house. I’m about to cook dinner while watching crap on Netflix. Life is good Grin

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Wolfcub · 21/11/2019 19:21

The magazine has arrived thank you Life. If any frugaleer would like it after me I'm happy to post on when I've read it. I was very amused that we are only one letter different in real life Grin

Dgm in hospital, she has signed a dnr, totally the right thing to do. Fingers crossed she comes home but if she doesn't at least it's her decision

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Mynameisnotthis · 21/11/2019 22:48

Hello!

Been dealing with poorly weans so have been a bit quiet. On the mend tho so have tried to catch up over the end of the last thread and start of this one.

Glad the UC meeting went well Lap

Well done on making the therapy decision Em. I have issues with health anxiety though am in a much better place than this time last year. I had CBT but was also very very fortunate to have been referred to a clinical psychologist while pregnant.

Sorry about the extended wait Plan. What a worrying time.

Girlie I had horrendous ovary pain during ovulation this cycle. Poor DD. That said, I think mine is caused by a resulting complication of a totally fucked c section earlier this year Confused.
And a great big happy birthday to you!

Sea I had a wee giggle at fat fighters. Dust anyone? Dust? No? Grin. Well done on the business case!

unescorted Grin I’m glad I didn’t break the thread!

Been a tad spendy but pretty much all budgeted for. Have very nearly finished Christmas shopping. Just an Echo to get for my dad and hoping for a good deal for Black Friday! Same as you Em I now have no pay until February so had to be organised early! Although just got a bonus surprise to find our I’m actually getting one last week of SMP in this months pay. Woooop!

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Mynameisnotthis · 21/11/2019 22:50

Sorry Wolf I missed your last post about your DGM. Flowers

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