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4DPO today - anyone joining the 2ww??

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ElsaTam Tue 05-Nov-19 22:54:47

Hello! I am 4dpo and already starting to look for preggo signs.. i know i know!..
This cycle I had again tender breasts during/after ovulation, but today at 4dpo I noticed that they are not that “full” anymore (I confess it left me a bit worried!).
Okp positive on 31st Oct and ovulation on 1st Nov. Temperature raised on 2nd Nov and kept high (had a small drop but today even higher than before). All good (I think??) but the breasts don’t seem tender anymore (Although progesterone levels seems good). It is the first month I am checking temperature. We are trying to conceive since July/August. September had a chemical pregnancy.
Whomever is out there in the same boat - please share your symptoms! Also, if anyone had experience with losing breast symptoms after ovulation.. please share your experience! Thanks!

rhirhibumblebee Sat 07-Dec-19 19:26:50

Thank you @Aggie53 I hope you are feeling well! Xx

Aggie53 Sat 07-Dec-19 21:32:17

@ElsaTam I definitely see the line ! That’s why I said test later so it will be stronger line ha ha but it is there smile I’m keeping my finger crossed that wonderful !

All good so far , it’s very early only 3,5 weeks actually pregnancy but doc could see sac and yolk in it got little picture too ! Hope will be ok !

ElsaTam Sat 07-Dec-19 23:10:46

@rhirhibumblebee I wish a very fast recovery and that all will get to the normal soon. Let's see what the next scan says, but sending you hugs & lots of love ❤️
@rhirhibumblebee @Aggie53 - And thank you for your supportive words!l I am not taking this yet as a real positive, I know that till AF is due and having a proper strong line is still a long way...

ElsaTam Mon 09-Dec-19 09:31:35

Hello ladies! How are you all doing?
Here 12dpo and the line keeps darken since 10dpo, jn the sensitive tests (10miU). Not yet enough hcg to show up in the cheapie tests (25miU). I'm so hoping baby will stick ❤️ hope to hear from all of you soon

Aggie53 Mon 09-Dec-19 18:36:04

@ElsaTam thats great omg you see you never know !!!!!!! fingers crossed and it will stick it will it will all positive thoughts for you !!!! im so happy for you

ElsaTam Mon 09-Dec-19 18:54:26

Thank you dear @Aggie53 ❤️ but well.. I am only 12dpo. Should remain calm and accepting all as it is. Will keep here posted. Hope all is going well with you and soon you can surprise your hubby! smile

rhirhibumblebee Wed 11-Dec-19 09:55:01

@ElsaTam How are things? Getting darker? I'm doing well thank you, busy weekend with my eldest's Birthday. Still HCG in my system which is disappointing because I don't think you can ovulate until it's gone ! Lines are fading though and bloods dropped to 390 so hopefully be gone soon xxx

ElsaTam Wed 11-Dec-19 10:15:34

@rhirhibumblebee thank you for checking on me ❤️ Yesterday (13dpo) it was darker than 12dpo.. it was going pretty good and end of the day i even got a line in a cheaper test (25miu). But this morning the line in the sensitive test got a bit lighter than yesterday.. maybe between 11dpo and 12dpo "darkness"... so i went pretty low.
I have an appointment today (waiting now) for checking my cervix which he said is better every 6months due to other issues i had 4yrs ago. So I will tell him and guess will ask for bloods (is this stupid at 14dpo, period due date?).. so I don't know I am anxious and nervous and sad.. well, afraid!!!

ElsaTam Wed 11-Dec-19 10:16:33

@rhirhibumblebee and sorry to hear about your case.. so sad that all that happened and still things are "finishing".. I am so very sorry for your loss and crossing fingers for you to have a better outcome in the next cycle already ❤️

rhirhibumblebee Wed 11-Dec-19 11:04:46

@ElsaTam I think there a lots of reasons it could be slightly fainter , not necessarily bad. Did you take at the same time of day? Had the same amount to drink? Good luck for your appointment l, hope all goes well XX

ElsaTam Wed 11-Dec-19 11:48:11

@rhirhibumblebee it was the first morning urine.. so I believed it should be at least as yesterday morning. Yesterday end of the day was better than morning, so I got quite confused.
Here where I live is not normal at all to check the hcg levels. They said it's way to early and not to worry with lighter lines and that I shouldn't even be testing earlier than a missed period (well.. we know that). Period is due today and he anyway made a vaginal ultrasound. The "dot" is there with 12cm, he says all normal for the time being. But nothing else can be checked (if inside the uterus or something else). But I guess at least he would see it if period was near to come? Anyway, if it will develop normally or not, if hcg levels will raise or not, nobody knows, so no point on stressing. I just need to remain calm and wait. We never know what can happen, it can be ok, it can be an unfortunate thing like it happen to you.
I won't stress but I will keep testing, if lines fade away I will just wait for my period and then the hcg levels to go to minimum as well..

rhirhibumblebee Wed 11-Dec-19 12:59:51

It all sounds promising! It's not routine to check HCG here either. Only after miscarriage or abnormality. The days feel long during the first few weeks but keep busy and time will tell. 🥰🥰 Xx

justmumming1 Wed 11-Dec-19 13:52:42

hey guys ive been off here for the last few weeks comming to terms with not having another baby and I finally feel ok, two is enough right now, i joined a gym started pilates booked some fun stuff and started havin fun in myselfand though ok i can do this! then j just felt awful today so tested and saw this. what do you guys think? i feel sick

is it evap? i know this sounds awful but i tried for so long with no luck and was just feeling happier after moving on!

justmumming1 Wed 11-Dec-19 13:54:03

can anyone else see this? has anyone had false positives or evaps with frers? xxx also fingers crossed for you @ElsaTam 😍😍😍😍😍😍

justmumming1 Wed 11-Dec-19 14:07:48

its got way darker

ElsaTam Wed 11-Dec-19 14:22:15

@rhirhibumblebee thank you ❤️❤️❤️
@justmumming1 that's not evap! Totally strong and pink! Congratulations! How many dpo are you?? I understood you were bleeding and thought you lost or bleed?.. Maybe I confused everything , sorry!
But congratulations! ❤️

Aggie53 Wed 11-Dec-19 14:25:53

@ElsaTam@justmumming1 looks like you both ladies got your BFP !!! so happy for you !! xx

justmumming1 Wed 11-Dec-19 14:30:22

@ElsaTam no last cycle i was convinced I was pregnant but then af came. this cycle I gave up snd this happened! im in shock i dont believe it 😭

justmumming1 Wed 11-Dec-19 15:49:27

thanks @Aggie53 i dont really believe it im confused!

justmumming1 Wed 11-Dec-19 16:01:24

@ElsaTam im only 8dpo!

ElsaTam Wed 11-Dec-19 16:55:19

@Aggie53 thank you ❤️
@justmumming1 unbelievable how the time passes so quickly and it's impressive how much a relaxed mind helps! Congratulations! AND WOW 8dpo and that strong! You rock!
For me let's see.. I have hopes, but I know things are just unpredictable... ❤️ may all of us have healthy babies!

justmumming1 Wed 11-Dec-19 21:26:45

@ElsaTam i know, what will be will be x fingers crossed for u hun

justmumming1 Thu 12-Dec-19 10:55:32

i spoke too soon, got a completely negative test today! not even a hint of a line so i have no idea what happened

justmumming1 Thu 12-Dec-19 11:41:06

here it is

ElsaTam Thu 12-Dec-19 13:41:23

@justmumming1 wow but that is so strange! Yesterday the line was pretty strong.. maybe try again tomorrow morning?

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