Any thread which mentions a significant ge gap relationship is met with cries of "you'll end up his carer" "you'll be wiping his bum when you're 45"
I don't know where I read it but apparently most people don't need that level of care until the last months of their lives (if at all).
I know loads of elderly people who live independently and manage (I assume) to wipe their own backsides.
It's the same when only children are mentioned "oh no - they'll end up caring for you on their own when you're old"
Do people really base their life choices on whether they might end up as a carer?
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Why are posters on MN obsessed with others becoming carers as life goes on
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CateTown · 11/04/2021 08:18
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