I guess this is 'AIBU to quit my job?'
Long story short. Currently WFH (primary teacher, part time). Have 2 DC, one with SEN who doesn't attend school full time and a 2 yo who is autistic. Childcare for youngest was grandparents who are shielding. Nursery not appropriate for youngest as very delayed, clingy to me etc.
DH self employed and we rely on his income. We would cope if I quit. But I'm scared to quit. I'd be isolating myself (work was my escape). Loss of financial independence. Recession looming.
On the other hand, my DC2s difficulties are severe. I'm struggling to cope. Not having to physically go into work for the last few weeks has taken so much stress away. I feel I've been coping better. I cry at the thought of anyone other than family looking after him, he is so vulnerable.
I feel like the decision is made, I can't go back. I can't, not with no childcare. But I'm scared. Scared that I'll regret it.
YABU - find childcare - your DC2 will just have to cope
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YANBU - be with your child now while they are so young.
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AIBU?
Think I'm going to have to resign due to childcare but scared to make the decision
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DanceMonkey19 · 22/05/2020 10:59
OP posts:
Am I being unreasonable?
344 votes. Final results.
POLL
You are being unreasonable
39%
You are NOT being unreasonable
61%
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