Dd is 7, struggled with friendship issues since nursery and recently discharged from CAMHS awaiting a diagnosis for high functioning asd.
She can say mean and inappropriate things at times, a bit socially awkward and doesn't make friends easily.
For the past few weeks dd has been playing with a girl in her class (been in same class with this girl for 3.5 years now) but came home yesterday saying girls mum told her friend she's not allowed to play with my dd.
I went to talk to teacher as sometimes dd doesn't get things right. Teacher confirmed girl was crying that she wanted to play with my dd but wasn't allowed as her mum said.
I'm so upset as if there was a problem I'd have liked to have been informed. Teacher said they had an argument a few weeks back but it was resolved and I wasn't aware of any of this.
I really want to speak to the mum but I'm a bit wary as she's in a "clique" they all sit together, and I don't want a playground spat. I had noticed the mum was offish, not smiling etc but didn't think much of it.
Teacher said she can't really say anything but told both girls they can play with who they like as long as no bullying involved.
AIBU to ask mum what the issues are?
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Not allowed to play with my dd - talk to the mum?
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ellieboolou33 · 28/02/2020 00:21
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