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Child in a jumpsuit for wedding

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GAW19 · 22/02/2020 21:20

So my DP's Sister is getting married in May. My DD will be 11 months old. I cannot find a dress I like anywhere!
The only thing I've found that I really like is a jumpsuit, however, my DB thinks that I am insane not putting her in a pretty dress!
My dp is giving her away and acting as 'father of the bride' so he obviously wants his little girl to look pretty.
What does everyone think? Aibu not putting her in a dress? Confused

Child in a jumpsuit for wedding
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Supertrooper98 · 22/02/2020 21:22

That's pretty. I have two little girls and until they were about 2 I thought they looked weird in dresses so yanbu.

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Darbs76 · 22/02/2020 21:22

No not for a family wedding. I think there’s prettier jumpsuits out there

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NerrSnerr · 22/02/2020 21:23

It's fine for a baby! Just dress her in something that's comfortable.

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Yabadee · 22/02/2020 21:24

Has it got poppers on the bottom? If not, that is going to be a pain in the arse for nappy changes!

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PermanentlyFrizzyHairBall · 22/02/2020 21:25

I think it's pretty. I would ask DP's sister if it's formal enough though. I do think girls in dresses when they're not even old enough to walk securely look a bit daft but for the sake of one day I'd put her in anything reasonable the bride and groom were happy with.

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Aragog · 22/02/2020 21:25

It looks lovely and just as pretty as a little dress.
Will it be practical for using the toilet though?

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TypingError · 22/02/2020 21:25

Looks fine to me.

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mauvaisereputation · 22/02/2020 21:25

I think that jumpsuit is a bit informal, but fine for a child that age as a normal guest at a wedding. However, but as your DP is one of the wedding party I would go with his wishes on this occasion. I'm sure you'll find a nice dress.

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Aragog · 22/02/2020 21:26

Actually just reread for age - nappy changes? Does it have openings so easy to change?

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TheNewSchmoo · 22/02/2020 21:26

I think it looks a bit cheap and like play clothes. Sorry.

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74NewStreet · 22/02/2020 21:26

Surely nobody expects an under one to be got up in a wedding outfit?? Put her in something practical and comfortable; she’s a baby.

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GreenTulips · 22/02/2020 21:27

I would go with his wishes on this occasion. I'm sure you'll find a nice dress

Why can’t he find and alternative if he wants something else?

Yes OP please bow down to the man and do what he wants.

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Hoodygoody111 · 22/02/2020 21:27

It’s pretty but I think it will look odd on such a young child. It looks nice on the child in the image but I don’t think it’ll look good on an 11 month old

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IthinkIsawahairbrushbackthere · 22/02/2020 21:27

I went to a small but formal wedding last year. There were half a dozen guests in jump suits ranging in age from a young teen through to an 80yr old!

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georgialondon · 22/02/2020 21:27

Only if it has poppers for nappy changes!

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JeezyPeeps · 22/02/2020 21:28

I think it's lovely, and just looking at the photo, it looks like there are poppers up the inside of the legs.

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tiredsleepysleep · 22/02/2020 21:29

TBH I think it looks like something to be worn on a normal day playing, not for a special occasion.

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regularbutpanickingabit · 22/02/2020 21:29

Can you afford both? Go for the monsoon-ish pretty dress for the formal bits and then change her into the romper when no-one cares and she’s rolling around the floor!

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99problemsandthecatis1 · 22/02/2020 21:29

She's 11months! She can wear whatever is easy and comfortable!

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TenThousandSpoons · 22/02/2020 21:31

It’s very cute. A dress would also look lovely though. DP can find one he likes if it’s important to him and you can’t find one

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RoxanneMonke · 22/02/2020 21:31

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user1493413286 · 22/02/2020 21:32

It’s pretty but I’m not sure if it’s dressy enough for a wedding

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tiredsleepysleep · 22/02/2020 21:32

@GreenTulips it's not about 'bowing down to the man' Hmmit's his family's wedding and it is also his decision what his child wears to the occasion. Has it's his family I think the final say should be his on this occasion. If it was OP's family then I'd say she'd get final say. As they have different opinions someone has the make the decision and in this case I think it should be him.

However I would also in that case expect him to be doing the leg work shopping for an outfit he likes.

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NerrSnerr · 22/02/2020 21:33

. I would ask DP's sister if it's formal enough though

Are there people actually bonkers enough to care if a baby is dressed 'formal' enough for their wedding?

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CalmdownJanet · 22/02/2020 21:33

Cute but no way is it dressy enough for a wedding, that's an every day outfit

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