I work in a school and one of the male teachers is rude to me. We’ve never had anything to do with each other but if I need to speak to him about anything he’s flippant and unhelpful.
If I see him in the corridor and say hi or good morning he kind of murmurs something back but deliberately avoids eye contact.
I’ve previously gone out of my way to try and make small talk to try and be friendly and he completely blanks me.
I’ve seen him laugh and joke with other colleagues so it’s not his personality it’s me.
There is absolutely nothing I could have done to annoy or upset him as we don’t work directly together and therefore have nothing to do with each other.
I’m getting really pissed off with his blatant rudeness towards me and really feel like I want to confront him (politely) and ask if he has some sort of issue with me, but I imagine he will just look at me stupid and act like it’s all in my head (which it’s not) and therefore make me feel even more shit.
The head teacher is lovely but I can’t really go and say anything to him can I? It just looks like I’m being overly sensitive- which I don’t think I am as I generally brush things off but it’s been going on for several years now and it’s making me angry to the point where I’d love to go right up to him and call him an arrogant prick who needs to get over himself!
Any ideas before I punch him in the face?
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salterello1 · 17/10/2018 12:31
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