My daughter is 4 and a half months old, and my mother and father in law who I absolutely adore, want to look after her overnight.
They often hint and offer, to which we decline or say 'maybe one day soon' but I feel awful as if I'm keeping her from them the more they ask.
We see them regularly, they just absolutely adore her and LOVE caring for their grandchildren (DD is our first but they have a grandson who is 3 who they mind regularly)
I just don't feel like I need the break from her, and have no doubts that they'd do an amazing job, I'm just not ready.
Can I keep politely declining? I still think 4 months is really young! (She has stayed at my mams but my mam 'knows' her as well as I do, she practically moved in with us when she was born) but even then I can't fully relax.
I guess I just feel as though they think I think they're not good enough which really isn't the case.
Thanks x
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twinkletwinklelittlerainbow · 18/06/2018 01:15
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