Posting quickly as I'm about to spend the evening with some of the people concerned.....
I'm going skiing with friends and family in Feb. SIL is organising. There will be 25 of us in self catered chalet. I have one child DS who will be 10, there are six other kids all aged between 15&18.
SIL wants her her brother (my DH) and I to do a huge grocery shop in a hired van as part of our transfer.
She asked me to send DS on the minibus transfer with all the others without DH or I. DS knows the other adults vaguely, and he knows the kids a bit too. He is quite shy of the other adults, it's a hair raising 90 min transfer followed by a scramble for bags and rooms.
DS is shy of the adults who would be with him. He is in awe of the older kids but they understandably find him boring and too young so they only interact with him minimally.
I initially said I'd send him without me on the transfer but then realised I felt extremely uncomfortable about it and have asked that either he joins us at the supermarket, or that I or DH go with him on the bus.
I'm already feeling unpopular, difficult and uncomfortable after making this request. I'm now worried I'm being PFB about it all.
DH is not DS' dad. Probably not relevant but didn't want to drip feed.
AIBU?
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To not want DC (10) to do holiday transfer in different vehicle to me.
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freshstart24 · 29/11/2017 18:16
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