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To think my DP is disgusting

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Happyhappyveggie Thu 23-Nov-17 21:37:59

Just had a row with DP because he doesn’t brush his teeth. He says he forgets and can go for days. I think it’s bloody disgusting & his teeth are in a state and there is no excuse at all for poor dental hygiene. Aibu

Whereland Thu 23-Nov-17 21:38:50

Do you really need to ask? Do you think someone will say yes you're unreasonable that sounds lovely to me..
so yes. It's disgusting.

Tinselistacky Thu 23-Nov-17 21:39:18

I hope you don't kiss him or have sex with him.
Morning breath at its worst.
flowersfor you op.

PinkHeart5914 Thu 23-Nov-17 21:39:30

Eww not brushing teeth is a bit manky! How can you ‘forget’ for days, as a one off now and then when busy fine but for days just no.

I couldn’t kiss him with disgusting breath and manky teeth

Happyhappyveggie Thu 23-Nov-17 21:39:49

He thinks I am being unreasonable though for having a go at him about it

Aperolspritzer123 Thu 23-Nov-17 21:40:30

Has he stopped brushing his teeth recently? I just can’t imagine ever getting into a relationship with someone so disgusting... people with good hygiene rarely just stop giving a shit I imagine...

NauticalDisaster Thu 23-Nov-17 21:41:02

It's minging!

Ttbb Thu 23-Nov-17 21:41:10

confused

That is all

hungryradish Thu 23-Nov-17 21:42:07

Yuck, he won't have any teeth soon if he carries on like that!

MinervaSaidThar Thu 23-Nov-17 21:42:26

Leave him please.

Happyhappyveggie Thu 23-Nov-17 21:43:06

It’s never been like this really- I don’t know what’s the matter with him- his teeth are disgusting- it’s like he can’t be arsed. Am so pissed off

DancesWithOtters Thu 23-Nov-17 21:43:16

That’s hideous. You shag him?

Happyhappyveggie Thu 23-Nov-17 21:44:44

No, I don’t currently shag him. Things aren’t great unsurprisingly

AnyFucker Thu 23-Nov-17 21:45:20

He is putting himself at risk of heart disease, the dirty get

How do you kiss him ?

BrandNewHouse Thu 23-Nov-17 21:45:39

Well I think that “contempt” has become a major issue. No way back from here.

Is it just the teeth, or would he say that he can’t do right for doing wrong?

SparkyFire Thu 23-Nov-17 21:47:00

Ew. I have an ex who would only brush once a day, if he remembered at all, and it was gross. Say to him "Your breath stinks like shit - do you really expect me to want to F you right now?" and see what he comes up with.

Happyhappyveggie Thu 23-Nov-17 21:48:08

I do feel contempt actually. I don’t want to kiss him or shag him or be near him at the moment. I don’t think that is unreasonable at all.

MarthaArthur Thu 23-Nov-17 21:49:16

Is he depressed? Thats usually a tell tale sign is giving up dental and personal hygene by forgetting or not being bothered.

DancesWithOtters Thu 23-Nov-17 21:50:05

What’s his reasoning? I can’t sleep if I haven’t brushed my teeth.

Even if I’m pissed enough to fall asleep in my clothes I can’t sleep without brushing. My brain keeps me awake.

DancesWithOtters Thu 23-Nov-17 21:50:29

Are his teeth the only issue?

fleurjasmine Thu 23-Nov-17 21:51:05

How, AnyFucker? Not heard that one before!

That is pretty bad, OP. It's not something I can imagine doing, and I am pretty unhygienic generally.

Happyhappyveggie Thu 23-Nov-17 21:52:05

I can’t sleep either if I don’t brush my teeth- I dont think he’s depressed - I am genuinely at a loss why anyone would do it tbh

Happyhappyveggie Thu 23-Nov-17 21:52:59

I have just told him how unacceptable I think it is and he just won’t listen.

MarthaArthur Thu 23-Nov-17 21:53:17

I cant sleep if i dont brush my teeth either. Im drinking coffee now and my teeth feel disgusting.

Happyhappyveggie Thu 23-Nov-17 21:54:42

I can honestly say that there has never been a day in my life where I haven’t cleaned my teeth twice. I can’t sleep with makeup on either

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