One of my parents has a significant birthday next year and wants to go on a city break to a popular European city to celebrate.
Obviously this will involve a flight and three night stay.
My parents are not short of money - probably have a combined income of 100k and no mortgage.
I have two siblings. One lives with his girlfriend so has a double income. They are comfortable.
Younger sibling still lives at home but earns a good salary and doesn't pay rent.
I am single, earn 31k but I live in London and have a mortgage which is a fairly big chunk of my monthly pay. Money is tight for me - if I go on a trip I usually plan far in advance and try to do this the most cost effective way - hostels, cheap attractions, offpeak flights etc.
Parents have picked a 5* hotel on a peak bank holiday weekend in mid summer when flights are also very expensive. They live in Yorkshire and also expect me to make my way there so that we can all fly together.
When I pointed out that I cannot afford this, they got very upset, as they want us to all stay together. I have asked if we could compromise on a cheaper hotel but no. They have also planned a lot of expensive touristy type trips which are all adding up to £££s.
So now after negotiating it looks like I will be staying in a hostel nearby whilst my siblings and parents stay in 5* all inclusive.
My AIBU is - are they being unreasonable to expect me to pay the full cost of the trip?
WIBU to just not go?
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teaandcakeat8 · 05/11/2017 18:12
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