Now it's over, I feel I can ask this.
I understand that if you've spent weeks/months shopping, wrapping, saving, preparing and cooking the idea of waking up in an empty house, spending the day pottering about reading and listening to radio 4 sounds nice.
The reality is a bit different. Some points are:
- Living alone is more expensive than living as a couple. Someone living alone just maybe isn't drifting around a wooden floored penthouse in a white waffle dressing gown but in slightly less desirable conditions.
- the Mumsnet line is that it doesn't have to be a turkey dinner, just special food you enjoy. That kind of happens every day when you live alone - you always make and choose food you like.
- As above to films.
- As above to baths.
- As above to books.
I will probably get flamed but I've had
So the reality of a Christmas alone is that it can be lonely, isolating and sad.