It is my daughter's 9th birthday in January, and she is allowed 10 friends to her party which is at a local venue. She has one 'friend' at school who is a child I cannot warm to (and from what I gather I am not alone) - she is well known for being spiteful and unkind, and she makes a big show of who is and is not her friend that day. Children seem to try and stay on her 'good side' for an easy life. Have never understood what my daughter sees in her, as all her other friends are lovely, but it's her choice.
DD insisted that she wanted to invite this girl to the party, and apparently the girl told my DD that she was inviting DD to her own forthcoming party, and has been quizzing DD about her party to make sure she gets invited.
So we did the invites and they were handed out on Monday. This girl apparently immediately accepted and is very excited (the venue is pretty cool). On Tuesday my daughter came home disappointed, because this girl handed out her invites, making a big show of doing so, for her own birthday party, at another well liked local venue. But my daughter is NOT invited. This girl is now repeatedly discussing her own party whenever my daughter is in earshot, and basically making sure she rubs her nose in it, along with a couple of others she has left out.
I am sooooooooo irritated. I am so not looking forward to the party with this little horror sat in the middle of it, probably being a right royal pain (she is v badly behaved). I just cannot think of a way to uninvite her.
Don't get me wrong - this isn't the first time a thing like this has happened, but usually it's been a few months after. Whilst I understand that almost 9 year olds have their own minds, nonetheless I would tell my daughter that if she was accepting an invite to a party, around the same time as her own, she ought to invite the child to her own party and if she doesn't want to, she should decline the invite. AIBU???? Both me and daughter wish this girl had never been invited but I guess we're stuck with it now???
Please or to access all these features
Please
or
to access all these features
AIBU?
party invites frustration!
53 replies
mummymummums · 18/12/2015 19:08
OP posts:
Newsletters you might like
Please create an account
To comment on this thread you need to create a Mumsnet account.