Ive recently made a new friend. He told me he was ' renovating his house', so i was expecting maybe a kitchen ripped out, bare floorboards etc...
Turns out he is living in a total mess of a house, im not even sure its safe. The walls have no plaster, down to the struts, wires all over the place. Some of the outside walls have nothing between the wooden joists, just the struts and the outside cladding. Some of the supporting joists dont even reach the floor as they have rotted away.
Worst of all is he has been living this way for 6 years and kind of isnt really doing anything about it now, despite saying hes doing it, hes actually not.
Its a new friendship, but i sort of feel like backing off a bit, aibu?
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To go off someone because of their living arrangments?
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Needsmorecake · 05/03/2014 19:35
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