Don't ask me how this conversation with dh came about, I cant remember, but it keeps going round and round in my head.
We were talking about the worst thing that could happen to us. Obviously, something terrible happening to ds or dh would devistate me. I don't think I could get over either.
Dh said that his mum or dad dying would be something that would make him feel that way. I asked what about me or ds? (he's not ds bio father, but ds calls him dad, adores him). He said that he could find another wife, have children but that his mum and dad he couldn't replace.
It's stung me. Dh is irriplaceable to me.
My own mum died when I was a child. My dad is still here, but he's almost 80. Of course I'll be sad when he dies, but really, I have my life with my dh and my ds to live. My mum died at 40, her life was cut short, anything into old age for me is a bonus.
Aibu to be upset by what he said? That I'm so repalceable? To be honest its got me me questioning a lot.
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Marthamoo123 · 29/09/2012 18:33
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