Slight background: Good friend, been through thick and thin. Been more of a friend to her than she to me (in making sure we see each other, driving to see her etc., making the effort etc)
A few weeks ago, after a VERY innocuous comment on FB (our main way of staying in touch), she deleted her friendship with me, then her whole account (which she has now reinstated).
And, that's it. Nearly a decade friendship totally deleted.
I miss her. I miss her friendship.
I apologised for any misunderstanding over the comment I made, told her that i do / did appreciate her friendship... Nothing.
I have to accept that she simply does not wish to be friends with me anymore. But she has been through some of my darkest days and my brightest moments (including my marriage and birth of children).
I know she was upset I couldn't make her wedding (in Europe, on a tuesday and no children allowed - I have two toddlers!) but I thought she had understood and I did buy her a very special and lovely present and took her out to dinner to celebrate.
I just want to 'let go' but still feel I would love to hear from her and love to know how stuff is with her. We always had such great chats.
I have tried to contact her once, through a mutual friend, but got a 'hi' back - but certainly no opening for further conversation, so I know I have to let it go.
I just feel sad that someone I thought was such a good friend could turn like that.
AIBU?
To miss my 'friend'
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