I couldn't see this posted. It covers the "Rainbow" story, males with guns as volunteers and other recent developments in GG. On "Rainbow", one mother says:
“I really object to my child being used as a prop in this social experiment of pretending that biological males can be girls. Girlguiding is telling my daughter that something that isn’t true, is true. And to think the opposite is wrong.”
www.telegraph.co.uk/news/2022/08/06/will-not-put-girls-organisation-how-trans-crisis-engulfed-girlguiding/
Feminism: Sex and gender discussions
Telegraph: ‘I will not put my girls in that organisation’: How a trans crisis engulfed Girlguiding
ResisterRex · 06/08/2022 14:25
Readytoplay · 08/08/2022 11:43
I am autistic (Ciss-female). When I was a guide, at camp I had to be sterogated from the other girls at night in case there was an ‘incident’ (I had never acted violently or even had a meltdown whilst at guides) I had to share a room with my mother, upstairs, while all the other girls were downstairs having fun. I was told it was “to keep everyone safe”.
Being told that you are a potential danger to others at 11 years old, has actually left me with some trauma 10+ years on!
Because of this, I feel passionately that organisations must be fully inclusive. We can’t make assumptions based on what is in between someone’s leg or their brain wiring and assume these characteristics automatically pose a danger.
Sorry but I can’t condone another child to have the same trauma I have. Sorry, whilst I understand your fears, I know what it’s like to be on the other side of this argument.
Helleofabore · 08/08/2022 11:47
Sorry, whilst I understand your fears, I know what it’s like to be on the other side of this argument.
So, to be clear, you are ok with a male sharing a tent with tween or teen females? And shower facilities?
Readytoplay · 08/08/2022 11:59
I would be ok with children who are biological male and Biological female sharing a tent, yes.
Helleofabore · 08/08/2022 11:47
Sorry, whilst I understand your fears, I know what it’s like to be on the other side of this argument.
So, to be clear, you are ok with a male sharing a tent with tween or teen females? And shower facilities?
Readytoplay · 08/08/2022 11:59
I would be ok with children who are biological male and Biological female sharing a tent, yes.
Helleofabore · 08/08/2022 11:47
Sorry, whilst I understand your fears, I know what it’s like to be on the other side of this argument.
So, to be clear, you are ok with a male sharing a tent with tween or teen females? And shower facilities?
Artichokeleaves · 08/08/2022 11:54
How do you plan to be 'fully inclusive' when including male children in a female only group will exclude female children?
Some of whom will be unable to attend a mixed sex group because of neurodivergence, disabilities, faith, culture, belief.
This is not inclusion. Inclusion is not only for TQ+ male people. Other children with protected characteristics are not less important than TQ+ male children.
There are mixed sex organisations in spades where children can go if they don't wish to go to ones that are for their biological sex, their desire to go to an organisation that is for the opposite sex, and remove this opportunity and facility for children of that sex for their own personal feelings and wishes to be fulfilled?
It's selfish. It's not acceptable. Other children are not owed to distressed youngsters with gender syphoria as a consolation prize. And no, pretending that things are other than reality is never under any circumstances appropriate or acceptable to do, regardless of how sad anyone may feel about other people's boundaries. For goodness sake, we do not teach children 'the answer is no unless the other person cries and says how sad your no makes them' for very obvious reasons.
There are no fears thanks. There's just plain awareness of total unacceptability regarding safeguarding, and experimenting in the hopeful wish that nothing awful happens for political reasons? That's not safeguarding, that's plain nuts.
Readytoplay · 08/08/2022 11:43
I am autistic (Ciss-female). When I was a guide, at camp I had to be sterogated from the other girls at night in case there was an ‘incident’ (I had never acted violently or even had a meltdown whilst at guides) I had to share a room with my mother, upstairs, while all the other girls were downstairs having fun. I was told it was “to keep everyone safe”.
Being told that you are a potential danger to others at 11 years old, has actually left me with some trauma 10+ years on!
Because of this, I feel passionately that organisations must be fully inclusive. We can’t make assumptions based on what is in between someone’s leg or their brain wiring and assume these characteristics automatically pose a danger.
Sorry but I can’t condone another child to have the same trauma I have. Sorry, whilst I understand your fears, I know what it’s like to be on the other side of this argument.
Helleofabore · 08/08/2022 12:08
Why? When we know that currently there are many rapes in schools and schools are clamouring to address the issue. Including sex abuse with phones etc.
Why do you think a male is not a risk sharing a tent with tween or teen females?
Or showers?
Readytoplay · 08/08/2022 11:59
I would be ok with children who are biological male and Biological female sharing a tent, yes.
Helleofabore · 08/08/2022 11:47
Sorry, whilst I understand your fears, I know what it’s like to be on the other side of this argument.
So, to be clear, you are ok with a male sharing a tent with tween or teen females? And shower facilities?
titchy · 08/08/2022 13:09
Do you not think teachers should be DSB checked then @Readytoplay After all we don't check other adults our children come into contact with - parents of friends for example, so maybe we shouldn't bother. I mean the risk is so low isn't it there's no point in safeguarding at all is there?!
Cherryblossoms85 · 08/08/2022 09:14
I've a much more prosaic reason to out my daughter into scouts instead: the guides uniform is a disgrace. Even on parade they just wear a t shirt.
Readytoplay · 08/08/2022 13:05
Yes I am well aware that it happens and it’s horrendous. But where is the line drawn? Would you allow your children if one was a girl and one a boy to share a tent on family camping trip? Because unfortunately sibling rape happens as well. Would you allow your teen to go out to town if her friend group included boys? Because there are plenty of secluded areas where no one would see. Do you not send your child to school until Year five? because before Year Five, children do not have to be separated when changing for PE (and vice versa).
Helleofabore · 08/08/2022 12:08
Why? When we know that currently there are many rapes in schools and schools are clamouring to address the issue. Including sex abuse with phones etc.
Why do you think a male is not a risk sharing a tent with tween or teen females?
Or showers?
Readytoplay · 08/08/2022 11:59
I would be ok with children who are biological male and Biological female sharing a tent, yes.
Helleofabore · 08/08/2022 11:47
Sorry, whilst I understand your fears, I know what it’s like to be on the other side of this argument.
So, to be clear, you are ok with a male sharing a tent with tween or teen females? And shower facilities?
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