It's alarming as a parent of an autistic girl who has just started main stream secondary school, I'm constantly thinking of ways to reinforce that she's not "born in the wrong body"
Thanks for the heads up OP I'll stay away from the NAS.
I said on the other thread I experienced this ^superpowers, and puritanical policing of how you're allowed to phrase/refer to people. It mirrors the trans ID situation in some ways and of course as we know can often affect the same people.
Some people who have relatives with severe autism have raised objections that it ignores and sidelines the negative aspects of that,^
I posted my first ever comment about my daughter on a FB site it was something about all autistics have hidden supper powers, which I think is so dismissive and I basically said my daughter is extremely vunerable to abuse, manipulation and is negatively affected daily by her autism.
I got piled on by a couple of people who just kept going, even when I clarified that I 100% support her and push her forward to achieve her full potential. A few parents supported me but in the end after about 200 comments I deleted my comment as it was starting to stress me.
Most were from these two telling me my daughter was probably better off without me that stung even though I knew they were being nasty and them trying to re-educate me that I must never talk/advocate for my daughter whose a fucking child therefore that is my role as her parent or say "my daughter" as she's not a possession...it did think FFS that is normal language of course I know she's not a fucking possession the my denotes that I am her mother 🤦♀️ oh and I'm holding her back by saying she doesn't have a super power, she's absolutely amazing and I'm a better person because of her. But she's doesn't need to have a superpower to be special or important to others.
Anyway I'm angrily rambling now!