So everybody, you do know how this is going to play out if many more organisations decide they ‘can’t afford’ being Stonewalled? The U.K. will start being compared to Poland or as a homophobic, right wing cesspit where LGBT+ citizens are no longer protected. And threads like these will be translated into ‘crowing’ and celebrating this (because of course many will not bother actually reading about WHY many of us have become disillusioned and disturbed by Stonewall’s underhand tactics)
But I’m hoping this could be the start of a cultural shift. I’m fed up of schools, for an example I’m familiar with, ‘outsourcing’ the inculcation of values such as tolerance, acceptance and anti-LGBT+ bullying to third party companies. I believe these values should be at the core of every school. I think far too many Heads have handed over the portfolio of ‘kindness’ to teachers, who go through these well trodden ‘procedures’ and tick box exercises, and then sit back and think ‘job done’.
What I want to see is the law being adhered to. ALL the equalities laws. That should be at the heart of an organisation. And this should feed in to a culture where everyone’s needs are catered for, accommodated, championed etc...
When I think of my own child’s school and it’s pride in being a ‘Silver’ ‘insert brand’ champion, I see mainly a lively presence on the school Twitter page, the same old tired posters going up in the corridor at various days/weeks/months of celebration/remembrance. Yet I still see homophobic bullying and intolerance, particularly for those kids who don’t particularly want to embrace all the identity politics stuff. It’s all very colourful but also seems a bit ineffectual and lacking in substance.
But it seems that this is repeated throughout many organisations and institutions. Lazy, virtue-signalling. Stonewall lost its way a long time ago. It’s time for organisations to embed real (and legally accurate) policies and procedures within their day-to-day operations that translate into actions that properly and positively impact on their employees and stakeholders. Not just another flag-waving, lanyard-donning exercise that is all about good PR.
I hope to see many more organisations decide that Stonewall ‘costs‘ too much.