Can you uphold feminist beliefs/values while working in the sex industry?
I am an exotic dancer (21) working in nightclubs. I personally am not super into feminism, I simply don't know much about it. However, the topic came up between me and a male friend. His point of view is that "being a stripper does not support feminist values because woman are doing something that the men want that is objectifying us". I disagree with his opinion because (having worked in the industry first-hand) I know that we are allowed, if not encouraged, to decline services to men if they are being rude/disrespectful/excessively drunk, etc. All business transactions consist of exchanging money, services, or items so what is the difference between me working my day job at a spa and giving a man a pedicure vs me working my night job and giving a man a lap dance? In both cases I am providing a service to men or women in exchange for money. In both cases I am also maintaining my morals and self-respect. I believe it's possible to work in nightclubs and be a feminist as many girls I work with are. From what I understand about it, feminism isn't about one sex being above the other, it's about equality and equality is present in the nightclubs whether we're naked or not. I may be incorrect which is why I wanted to pose the question here and get opinions from others.
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peaches2290 · 26/04/2020 05:04
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