DP and I are having a really tiny wedding in January- immediate family only, which will mean 13 on DP's side (we're including his little nieces) and 6 on mine.
We're not invit?ng friends because, although I only have one best friend, DP has probably 5 that could be classed as his closest friends and that's just too many for what we have planned.
My BF is obviously very dear to me, all the more so because I have a very small circle of friends anyway. She's like a second sister.
DP has suggested that maybe she and her DH could quietly come to our ceremony and for a drink after but that we couldn't really ask them to the meal when it's so clearly family only.
I'd love to have them but my question is would it be awful to not then invite them for dinner? I know BF would be incredibly gracious about it if we did ask her under these terms, and they live near to where ceremony will be so not like they'd have to travel and then leave hungry! But would it be wrong/rude to extend such a conditional invite??
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Hedgehogging · 16/09/2014 15:07
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