Can some of the lovely posters here please give me reasons why getting a male dog done is not a bad idea (from the dog's perspective)?
DH has a big problem with the fact that we got the dog done (when he was about 6 months old).
It was primarily I who wanted to get it done for a variety of reasons after doing quite a bit of research. Most of those were health reasons (e.g. reduced risk of testicular cancer at an advanced age). DH went along with it then but has since undergone a massive change of heart and bitterly regrets having gone along (some of it may be a 'male thing', however justified or unjustified). This has caused a great deal of bitterness and resentment between us. It didn't help that some time ago, at the vet's, the receptionist advised someone on the phone in front of us that there were no strong health or other grounds either way and so it was totally upto the owner to get it done.
If you believe (based on facts/ research) that neutering is completely unnecessary, please feel free to tell me so. Otherwise would appreciate any links or studies or info that you can give me on why neutering a male dog is not a bad thing for the dog.