We are basically at a stand off. Ds1 is 13 and where school is concerend he is a pain in the a**e.
He doesn't take books, do work, do homework. He has three detentions this week and is on school report.
He recetnly had a maths test, told us the day after with the comment "I've done no work to prove to you that I don't have to work. He got the highest mark in his set which to us just proves that he is in the wrong set. I'm fed up of talking to school, they don't seem to be able to make him work, we have seen educational psychologists, he has seen counsellours, but no one makes any difference, he simply will not work.
He has told us that he will get four days of excellent comments on his report from Tues to Fri if we let him play on Sunday (big match!!) but after that he will stop trying again.
I know that we can't stand down on this but also know that he can put the work in if he wants to, he jsut doesn't want to and will not unless we give in
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lilibet · 13/03/2007 16:15
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