DD 16 (very mature for her age) has been very involved in a youth theatre since she was in Junior school. She is one of the lucky ones who is picked for main roles and as a result has many friends who are older than her (age group ranges from 8-21)
She has been an amazingly easy teen- doesn't argue- does as she's told, not particularly moody (unlike her sister who was very tricky until recently.)
She is at a girls' school where she cannot bear the bitchiness and so has few friends there. She gets on very well with the crowd from her youth theatre and sees them alot.
It would appear that she is in a friendship with one lad who is quite a bit older than her.
Not really sure what to do. He seems like a nice lad- works hard- been involved with charity work. But is it weird? My DH and DD1 (18) both think it is.
She has just tried to talk to DH about it and he isn't having any of it.
DD1 says I should be a parent not DD2's friend and stop this friendship.
I really don't know what to do.
I am concerned as I don't want her to get hurt and for her to become distracted from her studies. But I also don't want to put my foot down and say no as I don't want to drive her underground and become secretive (she has form for this.)
If she was a bit older the age gap wouldn't mean a thing but at 16 it seems alot.
I really dont know what to do.
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16 year old DD friendship with older boy
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Firefanatic · 27/12/2014 13:10
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