I totally sympathise with everyone whose young person is leaving to go to Uni; well done them, and well done you guys too for all the encouragement etc you've obviously raised them with!
My youngest has just started a biomedical sciences degree, though he's studying locally so living at home for the first year. He got a grant, student loan and also travel scholarship, the grant was based on my income for the previous full tax year; if you're on benefits or earn under a certain amount they get the full grant. Of course if your young person is living away from home they will of course have more outgoings, but if living at home I feel it's good for them to contribute something to the household so they get used to the responsibility of paying bills etc. If they work part time this will boost their income but of course this means they are having less time for study.
I do empathise with all the parents who have had to say goodbye to their kids who are studying away from home, as my youngest spent most of his gap year in Australia. I knew he would be safe as he was staying with his girlfriend, then travelling with her, but it was still really horrible before he went and for a few weeks afterwards, because the house felt so empty! He is not the quietest lad so the absence of any noise whatsoever was weird and really awful.
However the food and utilities bills dramatically decreased ha ha!
He had been away from home regularly, visiting friends round the country, since about 15 years old, but the fact he was so far away made it different. And he was away over Christmas (thank goodness for Skype!!)
As he's my youngest it did mean I had much more of a life though. I always thought I had a really great life anyway, I'm a single mum and have always worked, also I've traveled a lot with them so I think this has made them more independent and getting from A to B is normal for them. i think it must be harder for parents whose young people are not used to being away from home (and the parents not used to being away from them?)
It's hard isn't it, you want your kids to grow up and move on with their lives independently and achieve their ambitions, but it's still a bit of a wrench once they actually go!
Incidentally, my eldest didn't go to Uni, he went straight into work after A levels and I thought he would never move out! (Did so last year age 26!!!!!)
Anyway....will look forward to reading more on here as it seems like a great community :-)