So, I decided to surrogate for my gay friends. I'm due in days.
Anyway we didn't go tonal clinic we just used one the home insemination kits and it worked 2nd month.
Ok so friends who baby it is (yes part mine too) he and his partner have been together 10 years own their house, one is a school teacher and my friend is a carpenter. Very stable life styles.
To the point, I didn't know this but they've been struggling with their relationship for 2 years and broke up last month. Well my friend is now moving out next week and is off back to his mother's. Well he asked if I can have the baby till he's sorted of course I said yes. Well I'm due in days... How can I give over a baby in a few months time when he has sorted himself out. I mean it's a baby and it'll (hate calling a baby it but we don't know the sex) be attached to me and I to it. I know as it's legal mother I have all rights to keep it.. Which I know my friend will understand as long as he can be daddy and that's all fine.
But Omg.. How the hell did this all happen.
I'm stressed and scared and suppose I've come here to see if anyone has been in this situation or has any words of wisdom?
Thanks
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