Was just reading an old S&B thread about 'looking well put together,' not flashy or designer, just everyday casual yet decent clothes. Apart from the stereotypical claptrap concerning Barbour jackets and dog hair, it was a fascinating read!
What I can't get my head around is 'expensive' hair. Wtf is it exactly? Most of us can't help the way our hair grows (thickness, texture, porosity) so how can one alter that? I always imagine this is all quite subjective anyway, but for the sake of sticking to the theme, my very own blonde version of Kate Bush or Helena Bonham Carter (a bit mad, kinky and wild) wouldn't make the cut, lol.
It's all fashion isn't it at the end of the day? Today's preferred expensive hair is most likely Kate Middleton's, but that wasn't always the sought after style.
So what is expensive hair, in your opinion?
And then there's the clothes! Where are these 'well put together' peeps MN'ers speak of buying their togs? I like the idea of understated, which is mentioned often, but no one ever mentions the actual shops. Where are these lovely exquisite chunky knits and other understated items hiding? Most of the higher end high street sucks imo.
Some comments mention wealth or class, but having been surrounded with well off arty types throughout my career I only noticed a lack of make up and a lot of frizz. No one seemed to care.
I am in my early 40's, work in art (painter) and science (geologist), and love yoga, theatre, hiking and architecture, and I dress quite boringly, I think. I spend £150 per year on my hair and buy most of my clothes from superdry or white company (i suit their colour scheme). I don't seem to have a clue about style tbh, but I would like to learn more. Clue me in Mumsnet! I can never find shops with nice things that aren't either country casuals or overpriced cheap rubbish.
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follyfeet · 04/10/2022 18:59
Bestcatmum · 04/10/2022 20:11
I'm 60 and my very long hair has been looking awful. Dyed blond to hide the grey but it's gone really brassy and doesn't suit me so I blew £300 on a lovely ballyage colour that really suits my skin colouring and based on my natural hair colour. It's been trimmed perfectly and falls in glossy waves. It's never looked better. It was worth every penny and looks classy instead of brassy.
follyfeet · 05/10/2022 01:06
But is your natural texture 'bad'? If so, who decided? Who told you that the hair you were born with was inferior?
Cheeselog · 05/10/2022 01:03
Remember, frizz is a texture, it is not a sign of ill health or poor care. We have decided we don't like it!
Mine frizzes upon brushing, but later calms down to a nice enough shine
This is your hair. Mine is absolutely frizzy due to poor care - it doesn’t brush down to a shine, I brush out ringlets and end up like Hagrid. Frizz is curls that don’t have definition. To look good I need to use curl jelly on non-wash days and stop using a brush but brushing has been deeply ingrained in me by my mother (who has straight hair).
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ArseInTheCoOpWindow · 05/10/2022 09:14
Why are people aspiring to this? Years ago aspiration in fashion was not so linked with wealth. Look at beatnik, hippy, punk, new romantic, mod, and goth subcultures. It's sad really.”
Totally agree. However l think these sub cultures still exist, DD 16 is into all sorts.
l used to lecture history of fashion however. I’d say the 30’s was the last time people wanted to emulate the rich. This was a) because the world was in a deep recession and b) the influence of Hollywood.
I think there was a bit around in the 70’s too. Again when the world was in recession.
People wanted to look working class in the 60’s and the 90’s was just grunge.
l don’t particularly like it. We could all look good with a shit ton of money. Kate Middleton looks boring as F*. Some of her clothes are really fussy.
l think it’s better to aspire to an edgy look personally. Shows you can think for yourself. Or at least your own individual look.
antelopevalley · 05/10/2022 10:25
So white people's thick hair is expensive hair?
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