Oh dear hod help me. Wedding. Clueless. Actually really no idea at all.

[AtYourCervix]

Wedding next weekend. Family do so not massively over posh But more than jeans posh.

I am completely clueless And about to take DD2 to try to find something. Which means I'll get about 10 minutes in debenhams and 5 in new look and maybe m & s if I'm lucky.

Oh. And I'm very large and don't wear heels or skirts.

Please hrlp!

[AtYourCervix]

Lovely ideas. Thanks. I shall take your ideas and do some good trying on.

[herecomesthsun]

Debenhams sale tops size 20- I think the plum one would look good with black trousers for a wedding

[tethersend]

Can you wear red?

these trousers with this top and a long pendant necklace would look good.

[JuanPotatoTwo]

How about one of these with black leggings/trousers?

www.asos.com/Alice-You/Alice-You-Swing-Dress-In-Spot/Prod/pgeproduct.aspx?iid=3699954&cid=9577&sh=0&pge=11&pgesize=36&sort=-1&clr=Black+white+spot

www.asos.com/ASOS-Curve/ASOS-CURVE-Wrap-Dress-with-Metal-Belt/Prod/pgeproduct.aspx?iid=2602117&cid=9577&sh=0&pge=19&pgesize=36&sort=-1&clr=Navy

www.asos.com/ASOS-Curve/ASOS-CURVE-Shift-Dress-With-Embellished-Cuff/Prod/pgeproduct.aspx?iid=3059655&cid=9577&sh=0&pge=20&pgesize=36&sort=-1&clr=Black

www.asos.com/ASOS-Curve/ASOS-CURVE-Wrap-Dress-In-Square-Chain-Print/Prod/pgeproduct.aspx?iid=3007512&cid=9577&sh=0&pge=28&pgesize=36&sort=-1&clr=Multi

[herecomesthsun]

tkmaxx here

[AtYourCervix]

Nice though. I shall investigate and try on and report back.

[AtYourCervix]

Jumpsuit with back zip.

I'm concerned about weeing in such a garment. Particularly after wine.

[tethersend]

Another jumpsuit but £££.

[Ruprekt]

Black trousers, black top, bright necklace and scarf and earrings.

Primark for accessories.

[MrsCakesPremonition]

Sainsbury's also do quite a lot of slightly more formal wear up to size 22/24

[AtYourCervix]

And everyone else

[AtYourCervix]

Interesting mrs c. Will venture out on monday.

[MrsCakesPremonition]

Do you have a local Matalan?
This top for a tenner, plus a pair of their navy trousers (various cuts) for another tenner.

And a pair of ballet flats for £6 (blue, red).

[Stockhausen]

Stop being so negative, go to Evans & ask for advice?

[tethersend]

You may upstage the bride a little...

[AtYourCervix]

I can't find anything do am going naked.

[WeightyKaty]

Why only trousers?
Could always sell outfit after wearing.

[tethersend]

[AtYourCervix]

I'm not. D2 is though. She only wears black jeans.

She had enough so I'll look again monday.

[tethersend]

Oh. Are you really wearing jeans to the wedding?

If you're certain they will be ok with it... Well done

[AtYourCervix]

Ooh. She's found an acceptable pair of jeans. Phew and hurrah!

[AtYourCervix]

Oh dear. It's not going well.

Can i wear jeans?

[tethersend]

I have no idea about wee/jumpsuit combo. Sorry

[tethersend]

If you'd consider a dress, this or this is nice.

[AtYourCervix]

Hmmmm.

Nice shape. How does one wee in a jumpsuit?

Quite liking the trouser shape. Will try to find some to try on.