Just need to vent a bit, it's an access weekend and currently I'm being totally blanked by my partner. He has barely spoken two words to me today. Is ignoring my texts, even though he's sitting right beside me, it's pathetic behaviour from an adult.
Last night I called him out on failing to tell me that his ex had sent an envelope of photos of him that she had down to him with DSS on Friday evening, he had promised to always tell me about any contact with her that wasn't specifically about collecting or dropping off DSS, which he had told me was the only reason they ever contacted each other. I'm so hurt that he lied to me, maybe I'm being unreasonable? Please tell me if I am, maybe I need some tough love on this one, just feel like I can't trust him now.
I might just add, yesterday I had to attend a funeral where my ex (we were together 5 years, apart 7) might be and I was told not to speak to him and to report back on whether I'd seen him.... It just seems like double standards and makes me wonder why lie? Is something else being hidden from me?? It's a mindfuck being in this house right now....
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how2cope · 07/09/2014 12:31
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