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EmmaMumsnet · 01/11/2017 10:49

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Kannet · 04/11/2017 15:57

The best I got was “you are the expert ion your child”. Helped me filter all the “advice” people offered

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MakeTeaNotWar · 04/11/2017 15:59

That I can "love them there" or "shout them there"....but ultimately all babies get "there"

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glenka · 04/11/2017 16:17

Always ask for help if you are finding it difficult never try and do it all yourself.

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03kelwil · 04/11/2017 16:20

Baby wipes have so many uses always keep some in handbag and around the house.

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buckley1983 · 04/11/2017 16:22

I didn't know vests could be taken off from shoulders down!!
Oh how my LO could have avoided many accidents of unavoidably (or so I thought) getting poo on back of head when trying to remove soiled vest after a poonami! I wish I had known that!
Certainly when it's your first.. sleep when baby sleeps - simple, but true! Even if you aren't actually sleeping, just some down time - not trying to madly keep on top of the housework when there's a quiet moment - enjoy the silence!!

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Esmeralda78 · 04/11/2017 16:28

Swaddle me wraps were a godsend with my daughter. She was sleeping 12 hours a night within a month.

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littleme96 · 04/11/2017 16:29

White noise really helped my children sleep when nothing else would.

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happysouls · 04/11/2017 16:35

I was given an ancient changing table, with storage space underneath. It was tatty but cleaned up nicely and it was absolutely brilliant for being able to stand upright and change nappies, with everything within easy reach! Plus great for buying loads of nappies, wipes, tissues etc when on special offers and having somewhere to keep them all!

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angiehoggett · 04/11/2017 16:42

it can be overwhelming at times so make sure to accept help and to still have time to yourself

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glennamy · 04/11/2017 16:46

Best advice I was given in regards to baby was listen to all that offer advice but do want you want to do... Also sleep when baby sleeps if he/she is a bad sleeper! :)

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Candyperfumegirl · 04/11/2017 16:49

Trust your instincts.

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confused123456 · 04/11/2017 16:53

The best advice I was given is to do what I believe, well what my dh and I believe, is best and right for us. No two little ones are the same, equally no parents are the same. What works great for someone else may not work for you, and vice versa. Therefore, there is no real right or wrong ways, as such, just different ways. And as long as we do what we think is right for us, we are doing just fine.

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maryandbuzz1 · 04/11/2017 17:24

Our son never had nappy rash and I believe it was because we washed with Luke warm water and then wiped over with baby lotion ...then to finish off added a barrier cream.
He didn’t sleep throughout the night until 14 months but I believe a rigid bedtime routine which involved a warm bath, a bottle and a soothing story always helped getting off to sleep straight away.

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xcxcsophiexcxc · 04/11/2017 17:25

Being told it's fine to leave him alone for a by when he cries If I felt I wasnt coping. A sanity saviour really in those first few weeks when he had screaming days for days on end. I'm a single mum so I had no one to pass him over to when I was feeling fragile x

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Spices001 · 04/11/2017 18:06

Always trust your instincts & ALWAYS have a pack of baby wipes with you

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vonniebab2 · 04/11/2017 18:08

My best advice is when your child is sleeping rest sleep or take a soak in the bath have a little me time

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badgermum · 04/11/2017 18:12

I swear by putting babies to sleep in grobag type sleeping bags at night I never had them with DC1 OR DC2 but with DC3 sleeping was a breeze with them

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mrsRosaPimento · 04/11/2017 18:19

The screaming and getting up every two hours seems like it’s lasting a lifetime but it won’t. To be fair the baby in question has higher functioning autism and was our first.
It’s the only bit of ‘advice’ my abusive mother gave me that was advice rather than criticism dressed up as ‘advice’. It makes me sad. Like a taste of a normal loving mother.

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Bella8 · 04/11/2017 18:36

Babies will eat when their hungry, sleep when their tired and develop at their own rate. Gently parent through the waves rather than fighting the sea monster!

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Bella8 · 04/11/2017 18:37

they're*

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sarah861421 · 04/11/2017 18:43

Two Things, one old lady once told me that whilst I had never been a mother before, my baby had never been a baby either and didnt know whether I was getting things right or wrong. The other thing was always a spare. Spare clothes, toys, food etc, this lasts for years and even when they were tweenies I would have an emergency bag in the car with all these things and you would be amazed how often a 14 yr old boy ( or one of his mates ) would need a spare shirt.

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ateapotandacake · 04/11/2017 18:43

It sounds a bit dull but: keep a changing mat, nappies, wipes and cream under the sofa! It slides right out when you need it, means you don’t have to go upstairs or elsewhere and it slides neatly away once done. A fourth time mama showed me that, I was in awe.

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Triangularsquare · 04/11/2017 18:46

Always put your shoes on before you put the baby in the sling.

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ameswright2906 · 04/11/2017 19:26

The best advice I was given is to sleep when your new baby sleeps, however I never listened and then when I had my 2nd and 3rd, I couldn't sleep because i had other babies to look after! I really wish I could go back and just sleep whenever my son slept and not worry about the housework or him!

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Catmadroo · 04/11/2017 19:29

taking any offers of help and sleep when baby is asleep, if he is still asleep from car journey I would put him by bed in car seat and have a nap

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