Why are they laying into Fanjo here?

[StarlightMcKenzie]

www.mumsnet.com/Talk/am_i_being_unreasonable/a1748661-To-tell-my-friend-I-cant-see-her-because-of-her-3-yo-dd#38895441

[Plus3]

I read the '1child shouldn't be allowed...' Thread earlier. My DS is still in primary, but it has been suggested (ever so nicely) to me that he gets more help because he is disruptive & makes noises..that I must know the teachers so well because I also have to speak to them.

You were all marvellous. I can't summon up the energy.

[fanjoforthemammaries7850]

I hope not!

[AmberLeaf]

I don't think Clouds is a teacher.

[fanjoforthemammaries7850]

AThing is being seriously disablist now.

Am not posting as anything I could say would be a PA

[ouryve]

And she was.

[ouryve]

She probably has to catch up with her Daily Mail reading.

She'll be back.

[AmberLeaf]

Yep

Posters who are 'PC' = posters who look at it from all angles and show a bit of consideration for those who struggle for various reasons.

Posters who are 'non PC' = posters who don't give a shit about anyone outside of their own little bubble of perfection.

[fanjoforthemammaries7850]

Yes..I think she has just shown herself up there.

Being "non PC" means being a bastard IME

[AmberLeaf]

'who can be the most PC' what a thick shit she is.

What the fuck does PC have to do with anything?

[fanjoforthemammaries7850]

Bingo! PC is mentioned in a flounce

[fanjoforthemammaries7850]

I cannot believe some of these posters are real.

[AmberLeaf]

That violins comment was breathtakingly arseholey though.

Amazing what people are brave enough to say from the safety of their armchair isn't it.

No one is ever this rude in RL, does make me wonder what all the smiley people I deal with daily really think.

Prob shouldn't dwell on that though.

[fanjoforthemammaries7850]

And they are really selfish and call it being honest

[AmberLeaf]

It all boils down to the fact that so many people think that things like ASD/ADHD are just naughtiness and bad behavior all due to poor parenting and a shit diet, that is why they don't think children with such difficulties deserve or are worthy of any consideration, understanding or leeway.

They think it is our fault that we have children like this.

[StarlightMcKenzie]

My goodness. I really can't get trhough that thread.....

[StarlightMcKenzie]

Ah. Now THAT OP always lays into me.

Doen't like the fact that I ever 'disagree' with public sector professionals.

[Ineedmorepatience]

I have been over to the dark side and seen the thread about disruptive children in the classroom

I havent commented because I try to restrain myself over there, it is hard though. You all said brilliant things on your posts.

Why are there still so many people out there who dont get inclusion and how it benefits all members of the school if its done properly and why are they always so quick to blame the child.

ITS SO BLOODY FRUSTRATING!!

There I feel better now

[fanjoforthemammaries7850]

Yes..DD hardly eats at ALL at school. Then comes home and eats constantly until bedtime, in a really bad mood.

She says the food is nicer here than at school. Maybe I should serve gruel

[ouryve]

DS1 used to eat well and his diet is still not bad, if somewhat limited. Even when he had school dinners, he still had ASD and ADHD - but he was a right PITA in the afternoon because he'd not had enough to eat at lunchtime!

[fanjoforthemammaries7850]

My DD almost certainly has ADHD.. she eats very well, just leaves the table every minute then goes back shortly afterwards :)

[fanjoforthemammaries7850]

My friend's son blows all the diet stories out of the window.

He doesn't eat..at ALL.

He still has autism.

[ouryve]

Because children who have ADHD can't possibly be eating properly.