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Please vote in our "What do you think about the On Mumsnet This Week column in the Daily Mail?" poll

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JustineMumsnet · 02/09/2009 12:54

Hello all,
So am back in Blighty and have caught up on everything posted and all the ongoing correspondence with the DM that's gone on while I've been away. (Sorry very poor communications on hols so haven't really been in the loop but Carrie and team have filled me in now.)
Thanks all for the input as ever.

There are a few things you've raised that we need to address and clarify. So, as ever, apologies in advance for the long post.

The first I think is MNHQ's attitude towards this column and why we didn't try and put a stop to it earlier, i.e. the moment we found out about it. (Recap for those who may have missed: we didn't know in advance that it was going to happen, the first we knew about it was when we saw the first column being discussed on MN and initially we didn't think we had any legal grounds to contest the DM's use of MN quotes. We subsequently established some time after column 2 that the DM is, in fact, most likely infringing MN copyright).

As I said early on, a weekly column in the DM is not something we'd have sought. We share many Mumsnetters' misgivings about the views and general tone of the paper - particularly it's attitudes towards working women, immigrants etc. And as I've also said we've as yet detected no noticeable increase in visitors on Thursdays when the column is published (or on any other days for that matter). Nor is it a column that fills us with pride because it adequately represents the joy and wonder that is Mumsnet. So why - as some have understandably wondered - are we not banging our fists about stopping the darned thing and have we not fired off a barrage of legal threats? Why instead do we at HQ seem a bit ambivalent about whether the column exists or not?

The main answer is this. Like it or not, the Daily Mail is a very influential beast, probably one of the most politically influential institutions in the UK. So, irrespective of the content of these columns, the very fact that the Daily Mail have decided that Mumsnet is prominent and interesting enough to base a weekly column around increases our clout. Clout when it comes to asking government ministers to consider things like our miscarriage campaign, clout when we try to persuade Gok Wan's PR that he ought to pay us a visit, or when the Tories are thinking about environment policy or what they're going to do to increase breastfeeding rates.

We also have a distinct reluctance to "go legal" with anyone after our experience of GF going legal with us - the legal system and lawyers (particularly opposing lawyers) have a way of eating up all your resources, not to mention your will to live. And call us lily-livered if you like, we'd rather not be at the top the DM's hit list if there's a way of avoiding it.

Plus, from the correspondence Carrie's had with the mail in the last couple of weeks, it's clear that they would are prepared to take steps to minimise the privacy risks.

That said, we accept many of the reservations argued well here and in previous threads about the imperfect nature of the association.

In short, those of you who've accused us of residing on the fence are probably right - we are a bit and tbh it's not very comfortable!
So where next?

We think perhaps it would be best both to help us get off the fence and, if it comes to it, to lay the column to rest, to put the matter to the vote. We recognise that it's not a perfect solution but there have been a number of objections raised about this and we'd like to see exactly what it is that folks are objecting to - MN in the Daily Mail per se. MN in the Daily Mail without MN control over content. MN in the Daily Mail in its current guise/format - for example would it be OK if it were it a funny weekly column written by someone like MorningPaper (they'd never have she's far too rude of course)? Or perhaps you don't object at all (and you have an aversion to posting on this thread ).

Hopefully they'll be a clear conclusion and we promise to abide by it and to do our darnedest to put it into action as quickly as possible.

We're sorry this has dragged on a bit - it is a bit tricky to conduct this type of negotiation in public, particularly when there's a whiff of the legals about - and as we all know (if we didn't already) MN is a very public board, open for all to see and easily searchable etc. At some points we do sometimes have to just hope that you trust that we are not the bad guys who are trying to manipulate, exploit and mislead you all for our own ends (many thanks to those who have said as much). If you think that we are then there's nowt much we can say I suspect to ever sway you otherwise - but you're welcome on MN all the same because it's not really about us, after all.

It also doesn't help that it all kicked off in holiday season which is how it always is (GF the same) - sod's law and all that. Anyway humble apologies for not being a bit more accessible/on the ball in the last few weeks. We are almost all back at full strength now and generally at your disposal .

So here's our very quick poll - please fill it in (just the once please). It won't gain you entry in any competitions to win a family holiday outside of school holidays but it will most certainly influence what we do next.

Many thanks.

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Threadworm · 02/09/2009 20:13

I do accept utterly that MN is an ethically minded business and that they turn down some advertising for ethical reasons (as well as for the sound commercial reason that accepting it would really undermine their brand and consequently compromise advertising from more brand-consonant companies).

But 'ethically minded business' not 'commercially minded good cause' is the right phrase.

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tvaerialmagpiebin · 02/09/2009 20:20

I was being slightly tongue in cheek about publishing the MP roundup instead of the turgid cut and paste efforts we've seen. Personally I would prefer not to have any DM association at all but if there has to be something then I think MP would be far more interesting and indicative of MN than anything I've seen so far.

Quite accept that MP might find the DM too misogynistic and twattish cliche-ridden xenophobic drivel.

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whoisasking · 02/09/2009 20:29

Heh! I have always sincerely enjoyed the section of a poll which reads "I don't care"

The irony is so delicious, it MUST be fattening!

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Threadworm · 02/09/2009 20:40

Sorry for sounding so dogmatic. I know from fuck, really.

It just always strikes me that because the usership is a community, there is naturally always a little opacity about the fact that the site itself is a business.

And it is a bit chicken-and-eggy, isn't it, as to whether the high profile is there to aid the campaigning, or the campaigning is there to boost the profile. I dunno.

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beanieb · 02/09/2009 20:46

well, the bottom line is that the members don't run mumsnet, mumsnet HQ do and ultimately they can change the site in whatever way they want to.

There is the copyright issue though, which doesn't seem to be clear.

It always amuses me that people think a poll on an online forum is actually really going to change anything.

All it is is a meeting about a meeting about a meeting. Wastes time and achieves nothing.

IMO

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PaulDacresCrackWhore · 02/09/2009 21:02

Voted on the poll, and Voting Here for Whomoved's fabulous idea

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Nancy66 · 02/09/2009 21:05

Realistically there are only two options:

  1. keep it as is

  2. ditch it

    The Mail won't agree to having somebody that is not in their writing fold compiling a column for them.
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scottishmummy · 02/09/2009 21:24

DM and MN already inextricably linked.daily someone links the DM and discusses its contents.so no surprise they link MN and discuss its content.

see no benefit or rationale to MP writing for DM on MN behalf.if DM wanted such an arrangement they would have asked MP and not their own journalist to write piece.

have had good think and i think the main objective is to protect poster anonymity if post is lifted from MN.so change names

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gigglewitch · 02/09/2009 21:24

WMMC's idea is really the perfect solution. Pure genius. Do it

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AbricotsSecs · 02/09/2009 21:28

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morningpaper · 02/09/2009 21:42

Aw I love you all

I feel like the prom queen

The poll is interesting as an indication of feeling - although really you need to add the votes for options 3 and 4 together because they are really saying the same thing.

However we are just voting for what colour to paint the lounge while the house is on fire

It's nice to be consulted though eh?

(I've just been to a governor's meeting and had THE MOST fun. You must all become governors - it is GREAT)

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morningpaper · 02/09/2009 21:42

(there was sandwiches and cake and boys and everything)

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oopsagainandagain · 02/09/2009 21:43

it's done, and it's broken for alot of us now.

I think that the DM doing the column has made a number of people, MN included, realsie that the internet is a resource fro profit.
And MN threads are just another way of somebody somewhere mnaking money...

DM/no DM, it doesn't matter- there will be anpother reprter/column etc which may well raid more upsetting areas of MN.

And if MN stands back and doesn't challenge the DM then a precedent has been set and it is pretty much indefensible i reckon.
Ie they let DM take whatever they like- and then it's all fair game.

Sadly, i think MN either stand up against the DM, or we all accept that there is absultely no protection at all for any thread on any topic on here, and in the past.....

So my vote is NO NO NO nO.

sorry MN- please stick up for us and yourselves...

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jamandjerusalem · 02/09/2009 21:44

I think the Daily Mail is the worst paper out there. And Mumsnet one of the best websites. So tis pretty clear cut for me - why would we want to be associated?

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boyraiser · 02/09/2009 22:04

Haven't got a chance to read this whole thread (although read most of the previous ones on this issue), so not sure if this has been suggested before, but...

...if you have to do a deal with the Devil, err, I mean DM, could you specify that only threads in certain topics could be "harvested" by their slack journo for use in their print/web articles?

That way, MNers who are posting for support in abusive relationships, after miscarriages, through loss and bereavement, etc., - in other words, in all those areas of life in which it would be particularly nasty to come across your own words, reproduced, rehashed and 'spun' to meet someone else's agenda - could continue to use MN without the creeping uncertainty of whether their posts will be reproduced en masse & out of context?

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beanieb · 02/09/2009 22:09

boyraiser, this has already been done I think. Was also agreed gthey wouldn't use old threads - then they did.

ho hum.

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boyraiser · 02/09/2009 22:10

OK, just a suggestion. Talking of clout, MN got a mention in the Guardian today (can't find it now!) - who needs the DM?!

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hazeyjane · 02/09/2009 22:12

I think the trouble with that is that people use incidences from their rl to inform all sorts of posts on all sorts of threads.

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bibbitybobbityhat · 02/09/2009 22:23

My memory is hazy because it was quite a long time ago but I think I first joined Mumsnet as a result of reading all the press coverage of swmnbn's mighty pr machine cranking into action and threatening to obliterate mumsnet in legal action. I'm pretty sure I would have read about it in the Daily Telegraph as dh is a sports journo and often gets the Telegraph for vg sports coverage.

Surely the newsworthy story here is what has happened/what changed/what will change on Mumsnet as a result of the deal between LH and the Daily Mail? Or, indeed, on any other openly accessible internet forum where a contributing member then decides to sell out to the press? The bigger picture, including the argument about copyright ownership, would make excellent copy for any other publication.

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said · 02/09/2009 22:35

Excellent, option 2 is now in the lead. I really do like WMMC's suggestion though. Very good.

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whomovedmychocolate · 02/09/2009 22:55

[winks]
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oopsagainandagain · 02/09/2009 23:08

boyraiser- so what's to stop an other publication raiding those boards if MN lets the DM "get away" with what they have done???

that's the point, not whehter or not the DM should keep off those threads!!

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oopsagainandagain · 02/09/2009 23:13

and can the poll link be posted in all topics so that the pushchir gang, all the ante natala and postnantal groups and all the lone parents etc know what is going on...?

I reckon if you actually look at the whole site then only a small proportion of people posting on all thses boards know what is going on.....

there's been 300 odd votes do far- and how many registered users???

all post AIBU re MIL threads etc.
and ex is a nobhead threads- none of them aware that thier posts can get lifted wholesale by anyone who once walked past a journalsim school and put into a totally different publication...

what safeguards has MN put into place/will put into place to advise /protect those people???

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bibbitybobbityhat · 02/09/2009 23:17

Yes, I am sure the majority of Mumsnet is unaware that this poll is going on. They may not care, fair enough, but is there a way to draw more attention to it? I know there's a sticky ... is there anything else? big claxon? more direct thread title??

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scottishmummy · 02/09/2009 23:19

nothing stops any media perusing or citing MN because it is open access site

it isnt a wee chat with friends
it isnt a therapeutic community
many posters but considerably more reading

maybe do consider or be more circumspect before posting

we educate our children about internet savvy and perhaps as adults we should have internet savvy too

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