Dear lovely Mumsnet leaders,
Please can you help?
On the SN support thread, we're trying to find ways in which we can warn people with an autism spectrum disability that a mum is about to rant about autism in what is to us perhaps a scary way that we're not able to cope with because of the disability. (which wires the brain directly into the panic centre). Not all people with an ASD react as uncontrollably to sudden fear as I do, but some do, and it's a problem for me if I can't care for my family because my brain has suddenly panicked and shut itself down, if you see what I mean? I want to join in because it's such a support for me, and I don't want to make a complete berk of myself by getting my brain overloaded and then coming out with things that end up not explaining or making it worse .
I don't think we want to stop mums from saying anything they need to about their feelings about each disability (well, as long as it's within the law, of course) - it's a support forum for SN parents after all. But I need to be able to stay safe on there whilst respecting their need to rant.
I suggested a WARNING line in the message subject, and maybe there could be a tiny bit of guidance from mumsnet to remind people that all they have to do is put that warning at the top? But I don't know if you have any better ideas? I want to be able to join in in a safe way, and I don't want to ruin the rights of others to express themselves.
Any ideas?
Thanks muchly
Amber (mum of an SN child, and I have Asperger syndrome)
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