I don't think I said independent's had different rules over mobile phones. I did say they had different standards over matters of real illegality such as theft, etc. That to me is very important. It's something my dd's state secondary didn't take very seriously along with assault, intimidation, etc., all things that the indy sector in my experience would have excluded for. Just trying to draw a parallel about right and wrong and things that matter.
Cheating is shocking but unfortunately when basic standards and expectations in state schools are so very low and teachers in them think such things should be swept under the carpet then I can understand the exam boards taking a zero tolerance stance.
It is all so very very wrong. I wanted to be able to look up to my children's teachers but when a head teacher told me that theft was "normal" I'm afraid I simply couldn't do that.
That's why I take all this stuff with a pinch of salt.
And, no, my children were brought up to know right from wrong at home. I had no faith that those running state schools could possibly have taught them that. So please, those of you trying to take the moral ground over a phone that went off in an exam and wasn't removed from the pocket, just try to reflect a little about the bigger picture please. And why much of the public has lost respect. It's actually awfully sad.
My children had two state school head teachers at "outstanding" schools. I could not have trusted either of them to have been in loco parentis for either of my children because neither had the moral fibre to teach my children right from wrong and neither set an acceptable example due to their own personal conduct and truthfulness and what was condoned in respect of their staff.
I know there are many many committed teachers out there but there is a rot at the heart of education in this country and until it is dealt with the status quo is deeply out of kilter and the minority have for too long been able to dilute the efficacy of the majority.
For the OP's son, I hope and pray that common sense will prevail. That same common sense that teaches young people that theft is wrong, that assault is wrong, that disruption is wrong .....................