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my husband has left me for another woman

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loughtongirl · 12/10/2009 20:16

My husband waited for me to go to work last week and while i was gone he packed all his belongings and took them to a flat which he had rented. I had absolutely no idea this was coming. We had known each other for 25 years and had been married for 21 of them. He told me that he could no longer live with me because it was killing him. It has since transpire that he is seeing another woman that he met at work. We have a 15 year old daughter who will be taking her gcses this year. At the moment i am not sure i can get myself through this. Any advice would be welcome as i do have a supportive family but no friends,

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Drumdrum60 · 06/10/2014 23:04

Worry about a social life when you have taken back control and everything is sorted out . Concentrate on you and your daughter first . Don't do anything reactionary. Stay dignified .

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LiberalLibertine · 02/06/2014 03:19

You spell the amazing doctors name different each time!? Reported.

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possiblyprecious · 02/06/2014 02:39

He he!

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CarbeDiem · 02/06/2014 02:32

How lovely tamirya.Hmm


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ThingsThatMakeYouGoHmmm · 06/10/2012 03:29

And i was just about to post this link to here the OP to show how to do it properly lol

To my mind the agony that ensues from discovering the one you lurve is a total tosspost comes from realisation of the valuable time you've squandered on them.

Agreed. See even zombie threads have their uses :)

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izzyizin · 06/10/2012 01:48

I missed it, what was it? Send 30/50/100+ quid to have the lying scumbag your dh/dp/bf miraculously restored to your ever loving bosom?

Jeez, if some twunt did the dirty on me in that style I'd pay far more to have them kept away forever.

To my mind the agony that ensues from discovering the one you lurve is a total tosspost comes from realisation of the valuable time you've squandered on them.

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Smeghead · 06/10/2012 01:31

That is, the HUSBANDS think they are the only ones in the world who have ever gone through the "agony" of true love, not the wives who really do have the agony.

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Smeghead · 06/10/2012 01:30

Interesting though, this thread is very similar to another ongoing thread about an MNer who came home to find her H had left for another woman, clearing out most of the house in the process.

And yet they all think that they are the only ones to go through the "agony" of this shit Hmm

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GrimAndHumourless · 06/10/2012 01:27

oh my, Zombie Thread and Spellcastings

Seen it ALL now

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mum11970 · 06/10/2012 01:21

So sorry Hun. You dh sounds like a coward going through a mlc. Do let the school know what is going on for your dd's. Let your friends know, join a gym and go along to classes, you'll soon make friends at women based classes like step and LBT, and just going out and exercising will make you feel so much better.

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QuintessentialShadows · 06/10/2012 01:10

Hmm
What a great zombie thread.

I too can create ever lasting love (at least sexual passion) through baking cookies on menstrual blood and semen, and getting the two to eat it.

See, I can tell you this without charging a penny. DNA from both, together with herbs, in water, facing north, in a jar, or mug, in a quiet room, and whohei! Babies. Incantations are needed.

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Smeghead · 06/10/2012 01:08

YOu gotta give these spammers their due, trawling for a 2009 thread in order to advertise the wonderful spell casting abilities of The Great Wizardo does show commitment!

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Dryjuice25 · 06/10/2012 01:06

2009!

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Dryjuice25 · 06/10/2012 01:04

Fantastic advice from Countingto10

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QueenieLovesEels · 06/10/2012 00:46

Bonkers.

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MayTheOddsBeEverInYourFavour · 06/10/2012 00:29

Spell caster? What the actual fuck?!

A zombie thread advertising a spell caster, thats got to be a first Hmm Grin

I hope the op from 3 years ago is in a happy place in her life now

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Smeghead · 06/10/2012 00:22

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