OK, just wondering what you would all do.
Dh and i had a stupid row today because i watched TV down satirs till midnight last night and he HAD to come upstairs (his choice!)
Every time we argue he uses the same old lines but they are now starting to get to me. He always says that he pays the bills and mortgage so therefore he should be able to watch what he wants, the argument always ends up with him saying that if i dont like it i should leave!
The house is his and has been for 9 years so he has a lot of history here and the mortgage is in his name. I have requested my name go on it a few times but get told that i will have to pay half the mortgage which i cant afford to do.
Im getting fed up of made to feel like im a guest in his home and terrified that if we do ever split up that i will be made homeless with my ds.
What should i do? I do work full time but earn half as much as he does. He has always paid the mortgage and most of the bills. I pay water bill, buy the clothes for ds and dsd and also pay for all the food we eat so feel i pay my share. I also pay three quarters towards a loan we have and i pay for the upkeep of one of our cars.
Its not as if we are skint either, we have a comfortable life.
Im just sick and tired of feeling so damn insecure about things.
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DH has told me to move out AGAIN
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Bonkerz · 17/04/2005 09:55
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