Maybe.
I really don’t know.
I don’t know what relationships on average are like, but I’m just overwhelmed.
He talks, A LOT. About everything: his job, friends, about his mom and sister not getting on.
How much am I supposed to care? Does anyone?
He touches me, A LOT.
If it’s not holding my, it’s my thigh or my hair. And trying to move it towards sex, A LOT.
I don’t know what happened.
I knew him before, he was calm, not needy, quiet getleman, independent before we started going out.
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In my first relationship, I’m kinda exhausted.
WhatDoIKnowAboutThis · 06/08/2023 06:48
Opentooffers · 06/08/2023 07:15
It is usual to care somewhat about your BF's life. That you need ask may indicate you are somewhere on a spectrum- we all have different levels of empathy.
Also, a lot of sexual advances depends on your point of view, is it daily? How often do you see him? Of course he's not going to behave the same way now as he did when not dating, but what you want is what counts, not what a perceived 'normal' is. If you don't like it, say so. Maybe he's not for you, or perhaps relationships on this level are not for you in a general sense.
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