Hi all,
I have a 6 month old little boy and love him to bits. However, for the past couple of weeks I have just started to feel really down. I live with my in laws (typical Asian family) and currently on maternity leave. Having a baby has been tough and I am at home 24/7. I love looking after my baby but the fact that I'm home, I'm expected to look after the entire house. It's pretty crowded and me and hubby and baby have just one room. I'm expected to cook and clean all the time and I can't go anywhere on most days because of this. I have my sister in laws living with me and we have turns to cook but the fact that there are like 14 people in a 4 bed room house makes the housework too much to bear. There is constant mess and noise and the daughter in laws are expected to clean it all. The other day MIL had a fit coz the house was not clean and we were too busy looking after our children. Honestly I'm sick of it. I can even get my own space as hubby is studying and I'm on mat leave. If I decide to go to work next year, I still won't be able to move out as I won't be able to afford childcare or rent. I feel like we r living in old times. I know that my depression is caused by my environment and honestly there's nothing I can do. I feel really suicidal and it's not for attention. I have no tolerance towards anything. I love my baby to bits but even when he cries I get annoyed. I know I should consult a doctor but I know I won't feel better until I leave this house
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