Met my now H 10 years ago, married a couple of years ago. Sold my home so we could buy together. Now looking back wish I had protected my future because I don't think for one minute this is happiness and I'm sure he feels the same which is really sad.
It's his second marriage, my first, he left everything & more to his ExW. I don't feel secure around him, question our future and what that looks like and feel second best to his previous life. I continue over time to find out more and more things he pays for - private health care, insurances etc.
We have nothing which suggests a future together As far as he is concerned if we separate/divorce then we split the home 50/50 which I'm not happy about. I try talking to him, as soon as I mention anything he brings up the subject of divorce which means I don't continue with the conversation. He earns considerably more than I do, I don't have any hope of being able to afford to buy again but strongly believe that's mine and my DS's future. My family strongly believe that if my H dies then his ExW will make a claim on our home etc and I will have absolutely nothing. It's all a mess & I don't know what to do next
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Whateverisnext456 · 17/04/2017 17:35
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