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How much does a prostitute cost?

58 replies

pombearsscarvesandpenguins · 07/04/2017 18:29

Long timer, asking for a genuine relationship related reason.

I know its a bit "how long is a piece of string" but does anyone know what a prostitute would cost for sex?

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lanouvelleheloise · 21/06/2017 15:43

I'm so sorry you're going through this with your partner. It happened to my friend - she found out her husband was the most awful serial shagger, not only of prostitutes but of so-called 'friends', and basically any other woman he met. In spite of it all, they are still together Sad.

I have nothing to add, other than that you sound like a lovely, compassionate person - to be able to feel pity/empathy for a sex worker when you are worried your partner is sleeping around with them is a rare thing.

BadHatter · 21/06/2017 16:09

How do guys that use escort services not respect women?

They see a service listed at a price and pay that listed price. To pay more just because seems like poor financial wit.

If you want to look at who isn't respecting who, I think you need to look at the people who offer their services. They control their price. You should tell them to respect themselves some more and increase their rates?

The whole sex industry is interesting. There are slimed folk on both sides (customers and suppliers) and then you have folks in the business that are just trying to provide for their family or looking for intimacy when they can't get it at home.

OP, is your husband actually a customer? Or you don't trust him anymore and have a sneaking suspicion? Why do you think he'd stray from you? Is he a shitty person (if yes, are you a masochist)? Or did the love in the relationship disappear?

NotAnotherNoughtiesTune · 21/06/2017 16:14

Street corner £10-50.

Escort type £50 - £500.

NotAnotherNoughtiesTune · 21/06/2017 16:16

Fuck £40 to massage ?

If I wasn't fat and ugly id do that... or does that mean extra?

Peewee23 · 21/06/2017 17:06

Lanouvelle- why does she stay with him after all of that?

lanouvelleheloise · 26/06/2017 13:54

peewee - I wish I knew Sad. I've tried to ask but never really got a satisfactory answer. Their relationship has odd power dynamics: they are into S&M and there is a lot of withholding of information until a Big Reveal, sometimes many years after events. I think, at some level, she must expect this kind of behaviour from men.

user1496940061 · 26/06/2017 14:00

It will cost you your dignity and self respect and that is priceless!!
Think before you go any further !!

mrsBeverleygoldberg · 26/06/2017 14:01

I thought massage meat wanking. I don't know for sure.

mrsBeverleygoldberg · 26/06/2017 14:01

Meant, not meat wanking!Blush

Kim666 · 26/06/2017 17:00

It depends a lot on what city. In Glasgow it's more expensive, in Manchester it's much cheaper. That's because the police have a different attitude in Manchester, they're much more tolerant. It's £35 or £40 for half an hour in Manchester, in one of the many brothels there. It's £80 for a half hour in Glasgow, if you can find anywhere to go.

If you want an escort to come to your flat or hotel room that would be something different. I think the cheapest would be £120 for an hour.

I don't think there are many streetgirls these days. Most of the red light districts have been closed down.

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achangeisasgoodasabreakdown · 07/04/2018 02:45

My dB and his friends paid 800 for one on a stag night in London. Except when she arrived, the fear took them, so they watched a movie with her instead. They told all their other male friends that they were able to perform. I think the 800 was meant to be for a few hours, but she left after the movie, and refunded 200 of it. With a lovely note.

Personalsituations99 · 07/04/2018 06:24

BadHatter i disagree with you, if a man/women see these people as nothing but a service they're a POS

TM71 · 07/04/2018 07:09

What if the service provider sees seeker as nothing more than money in he bank?

A lot of single mom's turn to escorting to provide for their children and pay bills. But yes here is good and bad on both sides.

OP he might not take a lump sum from the bank he could put a little bit to he side week by week. Personally just innocently ask him if he feels there is anything lacking from your sex life.

Most men feel it is down to either lack of or they have a particular interest that they are too embarrassed to ask you to do, I.e. could be something as smaĺl as wearing stockings and high heels or maybe he just wants you to spank him for being a naughty boy.

Sometimes just talking to your partner might help not all men who visit escorts disrespect their OH or don't love them. There is always a reason.

Redlightwaitress · 14/05/2018 20:42

It all depends on the economy of the country too. In Amsterdam's Red Light District starting price is 50 euro's for 20 minutes basic intercourse or oral. Anything else and the pice goes up. Hete' some more ingo on the topic: serveerstersgeheimen.nl/how-much-does-an-amsterdam-prostitute-make/

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Queenofthedrivensnow · 21/08/2018 23:29

@achangeisasgoodasabreakdown I like that story :-) an ex of mine was unsuccessfully co erced into a Prague holiday with the object of just using prostitutes. He refused and spent the holiday alone. He was quite traumatised. Lots of men wouldn't dream of paying for sex

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Rebecca36 · 24/08/2018 00:43

£300

AngelaSh3lt3r · 22/11/2018 16:08

£100-£150 per hour, some agencies or independent escorts offer half hour appointments, others require bookings of minimum 2 hours.
In a way, I’d say that a husband who pays for prostitutes is less worse than a husband who coerces his PA or the trainee accountant to do him a blow job in the office… These men are more common than you’d think. They target single women who are renting and don’t have the financial and moral support of their families – I only know of a couple of married women who were sexually harassed that way, and usually it was because their boss was a very important person, such as a politician, or their husband was terminally ill, or the family had a lot of debt and was struggling financially so she couldn’t afford to lose her job.
As to users of prostitutes, or escorts, the worst in my opinion are those who use young women, such as university students, and claim they are doing them a good turn, helping them to pay for their studies or even allowing them to explore their sexuality… If they are such good Samaritans, why don’t they gift them the money, or make them a peer to peer loan, or help them find a job? Also, from what I’ve read, sugar daddy websites are scams, most of the time, the guys think the girls will be happy with a nice meal at the restaurant, when they need to pay the money to pay the rent and the utility bills.

ballsfull · 23/05/2021 11:10

£10 for blowjob and swallow in Ipswich

Thingsdogetbetter · 23/05/2021 12:45

Zombie

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