My H, from whom I am separated, I am sure is doing the medium chill thing on me. I try to have conversations with him about trickier stuff and i get these bland responses, like 'oh that's a shame' and 'oh, that's too bad'. It is aggravating because we then don't get the chance to resolve stuff and I end up taking on a greater burden. For example, he has not ben at all forthcoming about chipping in for the kids' hobbies, such as paying for their music lessons or our daughter's gym. When I raise this, he just gives me a medium chill type answer and does nothing. Next week, the kids need transporting 60 kms every morning and then back again for their swimming lessons - again a medium chill answer and he does nothing, leaving it all to me, along with all the petrol costs of course. I want to split the responsibility. Occasionally the mask slips and he spits out some vitriol, so I know that this isn't his actual demeanour. So I guess, my question is, how can I counter this medium chill farce?
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