Aworks.co.uk what is this

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I typed in what is a work .co.uk and found I'm not alone .I came across the site on my partners bank statement last night .several times in one month every other day he made payments of ten pounds to that company I was gutted disgusted .I confronted him without telling him How I found it he totally denied it said he doesn't know the site and has never used prostitutes or webcam ect.he totally wouldn't come clean I told him you did that and even worse in my front room and god knows how many you have met .i confronted him again today and said you have been caught out I know you done it it its your bank and you paid that disgusting site for for those tramps .what would he get for ten pounds a time I don't know I haven't seen any other statements so I don't know how long it's gone on and how much he's spent .I don't know if I can get past this I don't know if I can let him touch me again I'm heartbroken I haven't a clue what to do I have never trusted him with good reasons he has always been sneaky and used private passwords on everything .I'm torn what do I do

Oh and your comment, that you told him that you'll be watching every move he makes?

I lived that life.

It is fucking soul destroying

I can't tell you how amazing it felt when my new boyfriend left his phone behind one day and I did not have any urge to check it at all.

That need to watch like a hawk? It degrades you. You will suffer for it.

Another thing... right now his promises come from fear (well best case scenario they do - worst case and also possible is he's just lying to you)

Fear does not change behaviour. Because all it takes is for the desire to one day be greater than the fear. That will happen. Time, complacency, fear receding (after all, even when found out he did actually get away with it) and the urge being strong... One day, that will be stronger than fear of being caught - the combination of urge, of thinking the risk is pretty low now...

And he'll do it again.

The only way for him to stop is not fear, but to not want to. How is he going to change his personality and desires?

How do you feel about being with someone who is only not cheating because he's afraid he'll get caught?

You could guarantee me I'd never be found out and I still wouldn't cheat. Bet you're the same. And I bet in your heart of hearts you wouldn't say the same of him

I'm here becouse I can't sleep .cabrinha I don't have his aw password when I first confronted him he didn't know I'd accidentally stumbled on the evidence .denying it when I said I have proof he said okay then what's my user name becouse I have never been on them sites I said you need to stop lying he replied I'm not I promise .I had to say the amount he payed the days he was on for him to realise he had been caught and I would say give me your password but I don't think he would ever do that .he tried when we went to bed for oral I couldn't seeing his eyes closed all I could think of was that he is with those women there pleasing him getting him off while he used me like a machine .this is going to tear me apart but I can't live a tormented life in fear of him doing this again but I can't seem to find the strength to do what I should what I know is right for me I just don't know what I did wrong to deserve this .no I never did anything wrong did I all I done was love him and help him to climb back up when he was on his knees financially I know I keep saying it but I'm so thankful for the support here iv got up becouse I'm finding it difficult to sleep and it's here I have turned to becouse I feel iv got someone when I come here

I'm not surprised that you are tormented by images of him interacting online with sex workers in your home, let alone knowing that he most probably subsequently fantasised about them while having sex with you.

This man is a liar and, while he's not a particularly accomplished one, the fact that he thinks you're going to suck his dick off when you don't know where it's been indicates that he's under the impression he's got one over on you because his feet are still under your table.

Please take heed of Cabrinha's posts and make it clear that you want his aworks user name and password so that you can make an informed decision as to whether you want to continue a relationship with a man who places his desire for prostitutes above you.

I would also suggest you tell him to get checked out for stis at a GUM clinic and make an appointment for yourself.

There'll always be someone here for you, but I hope you'll dig deep and ditch the liar so that you can find an honourable and respectful man who'll 'be there' for you in rl.

I'm not sure what else I can say.
You KNOW what you have to do.
For YOU and for your sanity.
But don't seem willing to make that move.
Take your time.
But stop giving him blow jobs FFS.
That won't solve anything and will make you feel more shite about yourself.

You didn't do anything wrong, love.

It was quite useful for me to find out my XH booked a prostitute on AW just 6 weeks into seeing his new girlfriend. I suppose although I knew it wasn't my fault there was a 0.0000001% of me that still didn't know that.

This is not about you, it's about him.

You know my view:

• he won't change, he'll do it again

But even if you thought he could change:

• you'll have a shit life because you'll be wondering and trying to go through his phone and degrading yourself stalking him because you'll never be sure (it's just not worth it, there are lovely men out there, plus single is better than that!)

But now you tell us he got you to suck his cock last night

• what kind of grade A arsehole responds to the situation that his partner knows he is cheating, by wanting sex - and very much a "for him" sexual act.

He really doesn't think very much of you, does he?

Google the "pick me" dance. FGS don't lower yourself to giving him blow jobs in competition with prostitutes

There is nowhere for this relationship to go when you know you can't even tell him to show you his adultwork account.

There are women on here who have come back from affairs, and the constant theme is HONESTY.

This isn't an affair though, it's prostitution. And as I said upthread that's s cold hearted calculated act and I don't think you can come back from that.

What kind of man expects sex from you when he should be BEGGING you to stay with him? He knows you're feeling too weak to end it. He thinks already that he just has to weather the storm and minimise it - because the minute you didn't end it instantly, as soon as you listened to his shit, he knew he was home and dry. And thought he'd get a nice blow job

Time to tell the bastard you're actually not pathetically desperate to keep him, and he can go pay to get his cock sucked, and not come back.

The BJ just highlights the fact that he's a self centred arsehole, you can do sooooooooooo much better OP, I hope in time you get rid of the creep.

This is an interesting one! I've just checked on Google because the fraud department for Barclays noticed this transaction coming out of my account. I obviously didn't make this transaction as it was from Cyrprus.

I checked on Google to see what it's all about, and this was the first link!

Very shocked as to how this could happen! I've been told that ATM's do occasionally get rigged and your card details can be taken. But this is the first time this has happened.

Any one else had a similar experience?

Yeah right Victor.

awork is simply adultwork.com escorts , videos ,pics , phone chat , after reading what you have said £10 will get 10 credits which is a vouyer at most hes just looking at girly mag for 10 mins for 10 creds , being a married bloke myself hes just looking , ive been there and still adore my wife , but no need for him to be so ivasive about it unless hes embarased??????

ps , adultwork is a cyprus based company ( offshore no tax etc)

I used to work on AW as a webcam model. No.1 I’m not a tramp and made more than most doctors from it for a couple of years only work part time.
No.2 He won’t be getting anything for £10 I time I can tell you that for a fact 😂 and not with any girl who works on there. I used to charge 2.99 a min so £10 would be gone on general chit chat the girls know how to waste time to make the most money.

I’m not trying to undermine the fact he’s on there though OP, he’s still wrong and clearly interested in other women. These type of men never change unfortunately and I doubt you’ll be able to trust him again after this.

This is a 4 year old zombie thread.