Basically, MIL is on a basic pension and is really short of money - so DH keeps 'lending' her money which we can't afford - it is only little bits here and there but it still annoys me.
I do sympathise with her situation but am I selfish to object to giving her my hard-earned money? I return to work in 3 weeks after mat leave and will be on a drastically reduced wage due to reducing hours/childcare costs. I do all the finances so DH doesn't really understand how much our outcome will be dropping despite me keep telling him that we can't afford to subsidise his mum.
At Christmas, he lent her £40 which she subsequently gave us back as 'presents' - I mean, how absurd is that??
What do others think? Am I being a selfish cow about this?
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Dh keeps giving MIL money - am I wrong to object?
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Ceebee74 · 05/01/2007 20:56
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