Stbxh moved out in November, or rather I threw him out after 18 years of verbal abuse. Dc's were devastated for a very short time, but we are all so much happier now.
He only sees them very briefly once per fortnight and of course acts like superdad for the 3 hours he takes them out, they now dote on him.
He us also extremely jice to me when I see him, chatty and always asks how I am. I have had a tough time the last few weeks for many reasons and today he was really nice to me again and after he went I found myself seriously questioning my decision.
Making him leave was the hardest thing I have ever done and I cant beleive I am even thinking like this.
Guess what I need is just someone to tell me I will be okay.
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Littlemissflower · 20/03/2016 19:40
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